My teenage son is very active and popular in school, however I need to help him focus in his future goal settings and enhance his motivation and organizing skills. He also expresses to me he has trouble focusing in school. How can I help him with these issues. I really do not feel he needs pyschiatry or medication for this issue of focusing but I am open to suggestions.

Andrea - posted on 09/26/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )




Looking for ways to create motivation, perhaps hobbies, and work on focusing and organization skills for my son. Maybe there could be some creative suggestions about how I can help my son with these areas. I feel this could only but be beneficial for his personal growth and maturity. Thank you for any suggestions.


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Jodi - posted on 10/04/2013




How old is he? Disorganisation is very much a typical part of being a teenage boy. Testosterone really screws with their brains, and for a couple of years there, you literally have to be their brain for them. It is frustrating, but they do come out the other end of it eventually.

Darielle - posted on 10/04/2013




Well just give him some time. Or u can get him a good girlfriend that will keep him in order

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 10/04/2013




if he's expressing trouble with focusing during school, you do need to have him checked out with a physician. There could be many causes of that.

however, if he's very active in school, I wouldn't think that motivation or hobbies are needed. Organizational skills are nice, but most teens (unless a 'type A' personality) have poor organizational skills, which improve as they get older.

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