Please i need your help, my son is getting abused

Kim - posted on 04/28/2014 ( 13 moms have responded )

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I'm a mother of two kids, the oldest is a 15/6 years old boy. For a while i've been noticing something unusual, i was seeing some bruises on his body and he was always tired and depressed. I was really worried about him so one day i followed him while he was out from the house. I couldn't find any information because he went to a house and i wasn't able to figure out what was happening, so i went back home. At night he came home, he was so sad i was looking at his eyes, they wanted to cry but he didn't cried i asked what's wrong with him, he didn't answered. I stayed talking with him like 45 mins until he gave up and he told me that he's dating a 24 years old girl and she's addicted to alcohol and pills, and every time he was telling her to stop taking these thing she turns to a monster. But it's not her who's abusing him but it's her father! He said that once she sexually abused him after her father hit him until he lost the power. He said that once he fractured (broke) his fingers. I was speechless. I'm in a big shock, i don't know what to do, so i really appreciate that if u'll help me. Sorry if there's any mistake in my writing that because english is not mother language.

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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/01/2014

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1) Keep closer track of your kid. He's not an adult, and has shown that he's not capable of making good choices. A 24 year old, for god's sake!
2) report the alleged assault. It is not abuse, it is assault.
3) do not allow the kid to return to the house. I don't care how much he 'loves' her. At this point, it's a statutory situation. Report her as well.

Mrs. - posted on 04/29/2014

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Yes make a report..keep your son occupied doing other things. Keep him away from them

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