Scary online relationship

Jo - posted on 06/30/2015 ( 1 mom has responded )




My 15 year old girl started a friendship with someone she met on a music chat room, this girl started a unhealthy sexual based conversations online started my daughter thinking she was gay and fell in love with this girl. Th online girl then had cancer and has now apparently died. We talked before this about false online relationships and the dangers of online conversations, so had thought she was wiser than this. When we found out we stoped all internet access and she can only go online in a public part of the house, and at very restricted times. These conversations stopped over 3 months ago, but she talks to her peers about this relationship, and has said to her English teacher she cant complete and essay about relationships as she is still distraught. Dont know what to do ?? Ignore this and hope it will fade when actual.relationships start?? Dint really want to talk to her again as last time she shut down and it really didn't work


Raye - posted on 07/14/2015




Your daughter apparently cared for that person, and is grieving over her loss. Relationships don't have to be physical to be real. You should respect that she lost someone she cared about, and try to guide her to making better decisions in the future.

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