Should i let my 12 year old son sleep naked when its too hot

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Joy - posted on 07/09/2013

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kids sleep on nude my 11ya old sleep was her dad she can not sleep she was me and her dad we have king siz bed all kids sleep was me my hub we a home nudist

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/05/2013

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Kristi, I think something got deleted...but thank you for your nice comment :-)

Tammy - posted on 01/06/2016

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It's only in America that this question would even be asked. Too many religious fanatics who try to twist everything into some sick sexual situation. I too am originally from Europe and nudity anywhere in our home isn't an issue. Our teenage boys often sleep naked in the summer and walk through the house occasionally, it's nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed by.

Kristi - posted on 02/26/2013

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I agree with the other moms...what's the big deal? I see Lisa's post about making "messes" so I'm wondering if a post got deleted. But, he's a 12 y/o boy so if you're referring to the "messes" I think you are, those are going to happen regardless.

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Jeremy - posted on 08/23/2017

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If they're brothers n they wanna jerk off let them go ahead n play w theirselves. It's a good relieving exercise n helps u sleep @ any young age whether ur 6,78 or 12 14. Don't matter really. Gotta bust a nut when ur a kid or preteen or teen either way or

Jeremy - posted on 08/23/2017

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Yes if they wanna sleep in the nude let them. I sleep nude every night. Theys nothing to be ashamed of no need to cover up ur penis or vagina. Let it be free n it's healthier on ur private parts anyways

Brandy - posted on 08/22/2017

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That's funny Michael, so what if he and/or the daddy gets sexcited. Give the guys some relief, there's nothing wrong with that.

Michael - posted on 08/20/2017

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No, because by that age he is going through the hormone changes that might cause him to feel sexually attractive to you

Jeremy - posted on 08/20/2017

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Theys nothing wrong w masterbating. I do it everyday it feels good to my pee pee so I'm gonna please it n let it gush cream

Jeremy - posted on 08/20/2017

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I have slept nude since I was 7. I see it like this, if me n my family wanna sleep nude n Walk around the house naked idc. It's a natural thing n our body's are made different but the same type skin. Idc if ur chunky or skinny, or if u gotta Small penis or a big penis when it's soft or if it gets hard certain times. Who cares everybody's body acts different @ different times n places in ur own home.

Brandy - posted on 08/11/2017

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All 4 of us sleep nude and together in one giant bed. It's me, my hubby, & our 14 yr old twins (Aaron & Cindy)... and we're always nude. We came into this world nude, why not live it nude... ;)

Nikolina - posted on 08/09/2017

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The question should rather be: Is there any reason why anyone shouldn't sleep naked, no matter if kid or adult!?

Michael - posted on 07/31/2017

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I had fantasies of mom when I was 5 to 15. I never acted on them, the only incident that happened was that she caught me masturbating a few times.

Norma - posted on 01/02/2016

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Well,i am a mom..( since i was 15 )and am originally from Europe..i have 7 boys my 3 oldest boys are 11 yr old twins.. and 12 .... All never choose to wear clothing in the privacy of our own home..and they told me that they are happy that they are allowed to be so free. SO YES INDEED ...mine do choose to sleep naked..it should be in all families,that the parents give the child the freedom and dignity to choose for them-selves what they wish to do in this regard....i have also chosen freedom for my-self... our life-style is the MOST healthy life-style..both body wise and mentally

Marg - posted on 05/24/2015

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@ Christine Enright-Westbrook:
You are a perverted incest troll. Get your dirty mind out of the gutter!

Marg - posted on 05/24/2015

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@ Kristi C.:
Only a sick and perverted person would know the details of CPS regulations that coincidentally just so happen to go against human nature and common sense while at the same time, coincidentally, just so happen to support your sexual incest fantasies.

Olivia - posted on 03/29/2015

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If you're comfortable with it, but why would you care, as he sleeps alone in his own room? I used to think my daughter and son should wear pajamas, but when they were 3 or 4 years old they wouldn't keep them on at night. I stopped fighting it and they still sleep au naturel, in their own room, most every night. They are 12 and 10 now.

Norma - posted on 03/27/2015

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am a mom of several boys to 12 yrsl old,,,all kids should have the right to sleep nude if they wish...now,folks that freak out concerning the nude body are not, well educated to concept of the body being beautiful ,not nasty,evil,or obscene,as the goof-ball religions teach...also they should have the right to be nude in the home,if they wish it,and feel comfortablei I have 7 kids and they are very comfortable with this .

Kristi - posted on 03/01/2013

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What in hell am I missing here? Did some posts get deleted?

Shawnn--you were quite diplomatic with that response! I am very impressed! ; ) I completely echo your comment.

My daughter and I live alone. She's 13 1/2. We've got the same equipment. She plays team sports with other girls that all have the same equipment. She still does not want me or any of them to see her naked. I don't want her to see me butt ass naked. She doesn't want that either. I wouldn't care if she did but it's kind of like having respect for yourself and for those around you. I can assure you, it is not for lack of self confidence as far as my daughter is concerned.

When my 2nd husband and I got married the kids were young enough to share a room. Privacy is not an issue at 4 and 2. But when they got older we moved because they each needed their own space and their privacy. It was not ok for my stepson to accidentally (or not) to walk in on my daughter. Neither one of them wanted to see the other one naked, nor would we have allowed it. By the time they hit puberty, whether it be age 10 or age 15, boys and girls should not being sharing a room and most definitely should not be sleeping naked in the same room. I don't give two shits who you are or where you're from...that is totally inappropriate and is just screaming for all kinds of trouble.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 02/28/2013

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Lisa, if you would be fine with your teenage children of opposite sex sleeping nude together in the same room, more power to ya. However, here, where I live, CPS would be all over that in a heartbeat. It's considered inappropriate exposure, and child abuse.

And, besides that, by those ages, all people should be developing some sense of personal privacy. I can't imagine any teenage girl wanting to let her brother see her nude, much less share a room and sleep nude. Nor can I see any teenage boy being comfortable with their sisters seeing them in the nude.

At these ages, we need to be teaching them proper decorum and behaviour, as well as allowing some freedoms, such as the decision to sleep clothed or nude. Allowing opposite sex siblings to sleep nude together in the same room is asking for more trouble than anyone would ever believe. All it takes is one comment from one person that is overheard by the wrong person, and something that really is innocent is blown up out of proportion, and people are hurt. And there are the instances of sexual abuse by siblings. Yes, it isn't a nice thing to think or speak of, but the cold harsh reality is that it does happen. Why tempt? Why put your family into a position that could be potentially problematical? Not me, thanks!

But, that's the beauty of the free world. We can each make our own decisions on appropriate vs non appropriate behaviour. To me, allowing opposite sex siblings to share a room and sleep nude in their teens is non appropriate.

Lisa - posted on 02/28/2013

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I think even then Shawnn it should depend on their mutual comfort levels. If they both have no issues with being naked then it shouldn't be a huge deal.

Lisa - posted on 02/28/2013

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No christine just edited her post to make it sound like perverted is all. And I assume that is what she meant.

Kaylea - posted on 02/26/2013

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yes i would say even if there is a girl in the room the girl will see a penis at some time or another.

Christine - posted on 02/25/2013

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Yes. As long as he leaves his bedroom in a tshirt/tank top and boxer shorts, sleeping naked in his room is fine. Also, have him have a pair of decent clothes by the bed just in case the house is on fire or there is an emergency. That way he can get quickly dressed or have clothes to take with him on the way out.

Lisa - posted on 02/16/2013

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Why would you even ask this? If he is in his room, why would you even know he was nude? I can't even imagine any 12 year old boy saying "Mom can I sleep naked".

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As long as he's in his own room that way, and puts something on before he comes out in the morning, I would let him sleep in whatever he wants.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/31/2013

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Why not?

The only time that I'd say no on that question is if the kid shares a room with a female sibling.

Otherwise, it's his natural state. He spent the first 40 (or so) weeks of his life naked. Personally I don't see a big deal about it, considering that I've slept nude for the last 30 years...until I started into the "change of life" and night sweats.

My kids have both always had the option to sleep clothed or not, and my husband has yet to don a pair of PJs in 40 years.

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