Son Stealing Mom's Thongs

Kendra - posted on 04/28/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )

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I'm a single mother of a 13 year old boy and recently I've discovered that he's been stealing some of my panties and pleasuring himself to them. I noticed that I was missing a few pairs of underwear a few weeks ago and I thought I must have misplaced them so I looked around the laundry room and then went to my sons room to see if by accident I left them in his laundry. As I was looking through his drawers I saw a small box and opened it to find two of my thongs and they were both stuck together and had stains on them which leads me to believe he ejaculated on them. He's my little boy and I love him but it's hard to fathom him doing this. I thought of telling his father and maybe having him talk to my son but I thought maybe that might embarrass him. I think I'm just going to have to sit down with him and explain why he can't do that but I feel extremely uncomfortable doing so

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Jim - posted on 07/16/2016

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Ask him if he wants to have sex with you and it will be better if you help him out by giving him handjobs or blowjob or anal, Since he already sniffed and licked your panty, he know what you taste like

Joseph - posted on 04/12/2016

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Kendra Marchand, my name is Julie and when my son was 13 years old I caught him steeling my panties to, I did some research and when I was done researching, I asked him what he wanted; he said that there were five things that he would like to have from me:

1. I want to keep the two thongs I already took from you

2. I want an outfit of my choosing from your closet

3. I want a bra of my choosing

4. I want to have 10 sexy pictures of you

5. I want a video of you having sex with your girlfriend

When he was done listing his requests, I asked him if he was going to tell his father, he said if you don't give me what I want yes. So I did exactly what my son what he wanted, I've been married 15 years and I still have a girlfriend. She was ok with the sex tape as long as it wasn't shown to anyone else but my son. Later on in my life I found out that it's okay for a woman's son or sons to want their mother in a sexual way, all it means is that they really love you, and that they want to feel like they're special to their mother.

Leah - posted on 05/09/2015

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My boys are 14. It is very uncomfortable approaching them. Sounds like you have made the right choice. Let me knkw how it goes. I need a few pointers myself!

Kendra - posted on 05/18/2015

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I sat him down and we had a talk about our situation. First I let him know that I love him and that I'm not angry at him but that it's inappropriate for him to do what he did. I also let him him know that he doesn't have to be ashamed about masturbating, that it's normal for a boy his age to do that but that it should be kept private. I expressed to him that while stealing my thongs was wrong to do, I understand why he did it being that he's going through some changes right now. Where it got a little uncomfortable was when I asked him why he decided to take my underwear and he said that he likes how it smelled, like the mixture of my scent with the smell of my lotion or perfume. Other than that it went good and I let him know that if he ever has any questions related to sex that he can always come to me.

Alfred - posted on 06/29/2016

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please email me on sgt4696@gmail.com for advice about this matter. it needs to be handled carefully

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Mr - posted on 07/20/2017

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He must love the smell of you.. not all vaginas smell nor taste good.. So be happy you got a juicy one.

Jamie - posted on 11/11/2016

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Kendra, this is very normal thing. My boy started when he was 12 and he still gets good grades and has plenty of friends. I don't know who your husband is or how he'd react but you definitely don't want to shame your son. Boys are going to masturbate, and a lot. Panties are soft, feminine, and sexy. It's an obvious connection for your little man to make. You have options, yes you could buy him his own- let's him know that it's ok to have sexual feelings like this. You could just let him continue and it will work itself out however it does. Or you could speak to him, again, don't shame him. That shame could stay with him for life. Thanks for sharing your mind and good luck!

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