Teenagers

Amrf - posted on 07/22/2016 ( 12 moms have responded )

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I came home the other day from work to walk in and find my 14 year old son masterbating with one of my slips. I was totaly shocked and embrassed.

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Hope - posted on 02/21/2017

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I don't think this is a serious problem and you CERTAINLY don't need to involve a doctor. Like the others said, him masturbating isn't the issue I hope. He shouldn't be taking your things without permission. I discovered my son had been taking my panties when he was 12!! We worked out what he and I refer to as the Panty Exchange Program where I place the panties I wore that day under his pillow at night and he tosses them back in my hamper when he's done. Been working like a charm for a couple years now. Added benefit of this is I can threaten to take away his panty privileges if he doesn't do his chores. Works like a charm. Incidentally, I told his father about the PEP one night after a bottle of Pinot and let's just say he took it VERY well. haha Men.

Vivalamusica - posted on 01/24/2017

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I think it's normal. I walked in on my stepson masturbating. It's awkward, but it is something that teens do. It is also something that adults do. Sometimes it is helpful for some during masturbation to have a picture or an article of clothing. If you are the only female in the house then it explains why he used something of yours. Maybe try talking to him about it and tell him that it made you uncomfortable when he used something of yours and that you would rather he didn't use anything of yours to masturbate with again.

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Terri - posted on 04/13/2017

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That's what teenagers do. They have hormones flooding their bodies and minds. Boys think about sex very often. Masturbating is a normal part of the sexual growth process. Tell him to do it in his room or bathroom so you won't accidentally walk in on it. Be sure to knock every time you go into his room! It'll save you from things you don't want to see! :)

Conceptually, I understand him going to a slip. It's soft and silky and would probably feel really good. However, the boundary is crossed when he's going through your things without your permission and taking them. That's the thing I'd be concerned with his behavior.

Ann - posted on 04/13/2017

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Masturbation is normal, and the underwater aspect, although embarrassing, doesn't seem too out of the ordinary.

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Masterbastion is completely normal and haelthy, I don't think contacting the doctor is necessary at all. I would however let them know that you are not ok with them going into your personal stuff without permission.

Hope Burke, I have a question for you...I personally don't agree with the PEP that you and your son do. I feel like you have crossed a line for sure. My question is, are these clean underwear or dirty underwear you are letting your son use? Just curios...

Eager - posted on 07/24/2016

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That’s certainly an embarrassing situation – I am sorry to hear about this! I think nearly every parent eventually wrestles with teen masturbation and you’re definitely not alone. A very good friend of mine faced a similar issue and she found this article very helpful - http://bit.ly/29Ys7sJ - hope you will find it useful, as well. Don’t worry, it will all be fine soon! Hugs!

Laura - posted on 07/22/2016

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Get professional help and follow it. Does not sound normal, and at least you know what has happened. This is a difficult problem, so ask a doctor.

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