Was this the right thing to do?

Chloe - posted on 11/22/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )




Im a 15yr old girl, 16 in March and I've been dating a boy for over 14 months now and he recently turned 18. My mom banned us from talking and seeing each other in February this year because when I was sick and off school he bought me some chocolate and came to my house to give it to me, and even before then she didnt let me see him as the first time we went out I lied about who I was going with.

Is it right of her to ban us from talking and seeing each other? We are in love and we both agree that we will not do anything sexual until I'm legal and we are both perfectly okay with that.


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♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 11/24/2014




Was your decision to lie to your mother, sneak out, and disregard her house rules the right thing to do? NOPE!

You went against your parents' rules for their household. You blatantly disregarded what they told you in regards to your limits, and you wonder why they won't allow you to date this person? Good grief! Oh, to be your age again, and KNOW IT ALL!!!!

Get a grip, sweetie. Your parents know much better than you do at this point. You do not know or understand "love" in regards to relationship love, and the fact that a guy who is 3 years your senior is chasing you is disturbing. He should be dating closer to his age group, and you shouldn't really be that in depth in a relationship at your age.

Were I your mother, I'd have made the same decision. You lied to her about this boy from the start. If you wanted to be treated as if you actually know what's going on, you probably should have made a better choice from the get go.

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