wht to do with my 19 year old duaghter

Lymaris - posted on 04/29/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )




I have a 19 years old duaghter she in college and work but she always in a bad mood when she get home and ashe do is complain about anythng and she never shut up she always want to be right, al she help me is paying 50$ a month, ahe has chg so much we had this huge argument and i kick her out , im so depress i never been apart from her,but i cant stand the argument between her sibling my middle is 15 and my youngest is 11, wht to do i have not stop crying since she left.


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Ginny - posted on 05/10/2012




I have an 19 yr old also she lives at home but goes to school and work I know what it feels like to see her change so much.The thing is they are looking to find themselves as adults in this world we live in and dont want us doing everything for them. There comes a time when we have to choose to just let them go on the way so they can spread their wings,as MOM we still see them as our little kids and want them to stay little longer. The best thing I can say is for the 2 of you to talk about why you kicked her out and try to see if there was anything that set this off in the first place or if she just feels like its time to move on in life as an adult taking care of herself. Its letting go sometimes that helps that stress between you two subside. It don't make it any easier but can help in the long run. I will keep you in my prayers hope to hear that things work out for the 2 of you soon.

Mindy - posted on 05/06/2012




i understand, not the same situation, i have a 17 year old that is rude and loudmouthed too. only thing is she got pregnant after moving to dads last year. but of course she came back home. sometimes i want to turn her over my knee and spank her till she shuts up. lol cant live with her and i hate it when she is gone. tell her if she want to come see u. the bad mood stays at the door. i have had some heated arguments with mine lately. dont tolerate rudeness. it will come back to haunt u. belive me

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