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Nikki - posted on 11/03/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Ethan and i are making great progress!! He is just now asking alot of questions about his "dad" and I have satisfied his curiosity so far so good :) Yes, it is painful but with God we are doing just fine . I explain to him that he has a Mommy that loves him so much and some children don't have that . I explained all the different "types" of families to him :) He said , "Oh , that's COOL !!!" I hope and pray you Moms in this situation with me are all doing well and keeping your chin up ! Keep your faith and know time changes everything. Much Love to you all Moms , I am right here with you daily going through the very same emotions, questions, answers I have to endure etc. Any time I discover new info , I shall "share"

God Bless,

Nikki

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Tricie - posted on 11/29/2013

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MalloryMel - posted on 02/19/2013

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The absent father.....Is your custody paperwork complete?
Prison dad is excellent time to file custody, as you know where he is.
If you blow this off (excuses, Can't afford, court has assistance clinics to help low income)
It will come back with His Lawyer girlfriend to get custody & visitation.
When I went to court, The judge sent us myself and 6 year absent father to a counselling session. The psychologist asked me how I explained the
missing parent to the child...I said In honesty "I never mentioned him".
My silence and verbal anger control greatly assisted my efforts in getting this stranger to go away forever. The verbal venom bashing of the deadbeat dad should never be shared with any child, the child is not your pal or girl friend of whom mom's confide. Of the moms who
constantly bash the dad in front of children-you are essentially blaming the child for all of the father's short comings. The children should be exempt from hearing mother's gossip, gripes and anger. They are the victim of the situation although most mom's think they are a victim, But it was her choice to have unprotected sex with the man of her choosing. Remember back in antiquity people had their tongue cut out because of what they said. Keep the angry venom away from kids.

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