16 year olds and sex "debate" thread...

Amanda - posted on 06/30/2009 ( 295 moms have responded )

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ok, so i am starting this thread because i am not going to lie, i love reading all of the debate and trash talk (it's one of my guilty pleasures, come on i know i am not alone!) on this but am a little tired of seeing it on EVERY OTHER thread (and lets face it, who has time to look through all the other threads to find it?!) in which fellow moms are looking for advice on totally different topics! so lets just get into it here, we can get all of the nastiness-sometimes hilariousness out here on this thread.

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Erica - posted on 07/03/2009

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I must say that I thought long and hard about even putting my two cents in this debate but I believe that it might make an impact on someone. Let me first say that we are not called to be our brothers judge but to be our brothers keeper. This being said I dont think that anyone of us have lived a sinless life to be judgeing any other person for whatever choices they have made in life. To sit here and say that 16 is not the age is totally wrong. It is not about age as so many of you have said there are older people who care less for their children then some teen parents. It is a matter of maturity and responsibility. As to the mom bashing what about that 16 year old boy who just fathered that baby and who might have others out there too. He is just as guilty and when we realize that we should be holding BOTH parents accountable we might see a change in the males in this society and therefore our children born to parents of any age might enjoy life with both parents.



As a mom who had her first child at 16 I must tell you that I graduated from high schol (even prior to my original graduation date) and went to vocational school. I have supported my children and have even taken on older peoples responsibilities. Did having my daughter at 16 change my life yes it did, it changed my career path, it delayed my attending college ( but did not stop me) or at least from what I had planned but then again anything could have delayed it, maybe a family tragedy or a relocation who knows. The point is that having my daughter at 16 after being with her father for years prior and years after did not make me a bad person or irresponsible. I stepped up to the plate and took care of what I had to do. I have not "slept around" and probably have been with fewer people then many who dated until later in life.



As to those parents who believe that it wont happen to me, not my kids. My only advise is to wake up. Quit being so naive. No matter how you raise your kids there will come a point when they will have a mind of their own to make their own decisions. As parents the only thing we can do is instill in them morals and values and support them in the deicions they make in life regardless of what the topic is. We need to educate our children on all of the subjects that the world is dying to tell them about and explain where our morals and values stand on the matter. Then hopefully and prayfully when they are in those compromising situations they will know the consequences and what they are ready to handle.



Remember one thing we are all unique creatures and each one of us is made to walk a different path. Streotyping and classifying young moms is as bad as saying all blacks are low lifes, or women are not as worthy as men simply because they are woman. Are we not moving foward in life then lets do so. Besides one thing that has always baffled me why are woman always ready to put another woman down. If we learned to stand united as men do we might become stronger people. May God Bless you and your families.

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You know I think that too much emphasis and stress are put on girls to remain Godly virgins until they're married. It's an act of rebellion in many cases because it's something that cannot be prevented if they really want it to happen.



I think the 16 year old BOYS need just as much grief! I'm sick of hearing the stupid little G's "Oh yeah I banged her, and her, and I did her!' They put pressure on girls to do things before they're ready, "Oh if you don't you're such a lesbian!" OR "I'll just say we did it anyways!".



I think everyone younger, same age, older has to start telling these hormone driven little auto drive penises to keep it in their pants. We need to start berayting them and calling them down! A girl who has sex young is a skank a boy is a player! THE BOY IS THE SKANK TOO! It's such a double fucking standard and it drives me INSANE!



Boys risk STD's Girls risk that and Pregnancy. Then they're left with the hard choice to aborting or keeping the child. If they abort they're murderers, if they keep it they're looked down on by society as young unfit Mothers. Meanwhile the Boy is "Such a great guy!" if he pays child support or hangs around! If he doesn't then she has to FIGHT EVERY STEP to prove he's the Father and get support.



It isn't fair, it isn't right! Next time you hear some "player" bragging go up to his face and call him a fucking dirty skank! Call him down and tell him he has angered God and gone against Christianity! Tell him he's ruining the community, making babies who suck up tax dollars!



It always centres around a poor girl who made a choice in her life and is going to have it thrown in her face FOREVER! The guy just goes and pops his dick into the next uncertain girl!



I don't know what else to say but FACK!

Dana - posted on 07/01/2009

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Quoting Holly:






I find it funny that you choose to quote the bible, on a topic about 16 years olds having sex.






 






 






Quoting Dana:

If it's a matter of should or shouldn't, no I don't think that you should be having sex before you think you are responsible enough. And that means ANY AGE. I did start having sex at 17 though. I had been working for 2 years and I was about to finish high school. No, we didn't get pregnant until after we married, but it could easily have happened even though we were careful and did use protection. I was on bc and he wore a condom, but still...shit happens. The only thing I don't agree with is that you can judge someone just because you weren't the same way. It's not like these girls are saying "i'm going to sleep with a whole bunch of guys and try to be a teen mother!" I mean, come on. Things aren't as old fashioned as they used to be. I've only been with one guy and I married him. We're still together after 7 years. I married young and had a child young but I don't regret any of it. If I HAD gotten pregnant at 17, why would someone I don't even know judge me?

Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?
Matthew 7:3

Just because you start having sex before you are old enough to "get into a club or sign a lease" does not mean you're a slut. It does not mean you are stupid. As a matter of fact, my best friend got pregnant and had a child at 16. She still with the same guy and they waited for 7 yrs before they got married b/c they didn't want to marry just because she got pregnant. Her second child is now a year old, she finished high school and she is 2 classes away from her associates degree. So she is stupid b/c she had a child at 16? No. So she was a slut? No. She had only ever been with her now husband.






 






 









 





Um yeah. I use that as an example because I"m just saying that it's not right to judge others. Are you perfect? No. So take a look at yourself and see what's wrong with YOU before you go talking about other people. I've already said, I didn't have kids before I was married, and I don't THINK 16 yr olds SHOULD be having sex, it's just not right to say they are stupid sluts for them doing so. You guys are a gruesome bunch....

Maggie - posted on 07/08/2009

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For me, 16 years olds and sex just don't go well together. 16 years old are just coming into their own and figuring out what buttons they can push and what they can get away with. They think they are responsible and can take on anything. Which is not the case. I know some 16 year olds are responsible for their age, but they still shouldn't have sex. My husband and I got into this debate the other night. He had sex at 15 and didn't think twice about it. I had sex at 20 for the first time and was super cautious even though the guy I was with didn't want to use a condom or anything. We are polar opposites when it comes to teenagers having sex. Being a girl, there is so much more that can happen. Not just STI's but a girl can get pregnant (duh). Unfortunatly the girl can't get away from it (unless an abortion or adoption comes into play), but even then there's a whole lot of other issues that comes with those. A boy, especially a teenage boy doesn't have to deal with the body changes, labor and at that age,a boy can just walks away. I know at any age a boy can walk away, but all too often young teenage boys don't realize that a baby is their responsibilty to, and all too often leave the young teenage girl to do it on her own. I have witnessed that way too many times to count. Teenagers are not financially, or emotionally ready for a baby that changes ones life FOREVER. I know from experiance as I am sure most girls do, that boys can be overly pushy when they want sex, and some girls give in.



I know a 17 year old who was pregnant at 15. We were in the same baby and me class. Her boyfriend at the time came with her to every class, asked her to marry him, was there for the birth and just a few months ago told her he couldn't handle it anymore and left. She hasn't finished high school yet, and may not go to college. She is lucky however that she has a family to help her out. However the father is gone. Sees the child every now and again, but for all other purposes he isn't around.



That being said, and this is where I will probably sound hypocritical. IFand that is a big!!! if, a 16 year old is going to have sex, I would rather they be protected and know all the facts. Girls should be on the pill or something like that, and condoms should be used at all times! They need to protect themselves and their futures. As a parent, you need to be there for your son or daughter. I know if my daughter had sex at 16 I would be disappointed however, I would be the first person to make sure that she protected herself, and then we'd be going to the doctor for a check up, and a talk from a professional. I have plenty of time before that ever happens and plenty of time to think about what I would do. However, one can't condem their child. They obviously told you because they trust you. If they didn't tell you they are scared of what you'll say or think of them. Reassure them, love them, and make sure they are safe.

Bran - posted on 07/08/2009

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i feel like no 16yr old should be havin sex because @16 u have no idea what they r gettin thereselves into.. they may think they do but no clue so for ur own sake girls just keep legs closed and boys pants on.

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T_cjones108 - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting rhonda:

wuts the big del? I had sex wen i wus 10 and i hav 4 kids and am preggers again ,lol. my mom helps me out. i cwit schol becase i diddnt want to wake erly. i had sex case i like the feel it in thur. i am 16 now and da good thing bout bein a yung maw is dat wen i am lieke 25 all mi babes will be doneed up and me i can partys and doin my own thins and wit i still have a hawt bodie and goin to da clubs and kickeen ot wit my home gurls sharlene and mikah, lol I loved yas gurls.
I still like sexin wen im knocked up to.



u do realize this group is young moms 20-30!!!

Colleen - posted on 07/08/2009

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I'm not about judging anyone PERIOD because I dont have that right but I am gonna speak my mind about the matter. My best friend had her daughter when we were 16...She graduated, worked her butt off, got her CNA's and MA and is a licensed massage therapist, owns her own house, and has always paid for everything for Antonia minus the WIC she got when she was first born. I'm not saying that I would want my daughter OR son for that matter to have sex at 16 but I'm not gonna say my son ISNT going to do it either. I raise my child right and I have high hopes for him in whatever he ends up doing in his future but he WILL mess up once or twice in his life and I'm gonna be there to support him when he does. I understand this is a "trash talk" thread but honestly thats just as immature to me at 22 as a 16 yr. old having sex. I dont recall my friend at 16 using words like "pussy" "hard dick" but I guess thats a whole nother topic huh? And another thing...I had my son when I was 20 but, I dont recall a magical age when I all of the sudden over night became mature...I think it was a gradual process that I'm still trying to master. Everyone has their opinion and heres mine...



"Who are you to judge the life I live? Before you point fingers, make sure your hands are clean."

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haha i love this thread.



I didnt have sex til i was 19 cuz i thought all the boys i was dating were immature , as are alll teens for the most part. It was a turn off to be lying in some tiny ass bed dry humping, and all the awkwardness that comes with having sex young.

So i waited, and dammit i tried so hard to keep my pants on that i was raped at age 17 for it, so i DO understand how hard peer pressure is, its horrible and girls need to stop doing that to other girls!!!! And guys needs to STOP bragging that they laid some girl.



So im teaching my lil girl what she needs to know about sex and how its soooo much better to wait for someone who you feel truely cares, i and hope my story kinda scares my lil girl into to thinking twice.

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No 16 year olds shouldn't be having sex, but face it they do! And it isn't some older guys fault... as some have said. Any normal 16 year old girl or boy are curious and obviously going to act on it. How many of you ladies had sex at the age of 16???



If you weren't having sex you were most likely dabbling in the thought or doing other naughty things.....

Maritza - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Amanda:

hmm. they cant vote, cant go into a pub, cant sign a lease, rarely earn more than minimum wage. have brains that are not fully developed enough to see what consequences may happen from their actions. most have the "it will never happen to me" syndrome, putting all of those factors together I would say that they SHOULD NOT HAVE SEX UNTIL THEY ARE ADULTS!. shit get out on your own first, prove you can support a child if it should accidentally happen. show that you are mentally capable of handling getting pregnant or contracting an STD. I got pregnant at 19 BUT I had my own car free and clear, was married and had my own place, was in school, working and had been away from home for well over a year.
I am so sick of hearing whiny skanks who are like 20 with 4 kids crying about how broke they are, how tired they are, how lonely they are because all 4 of their babies daddy's left them. I really hate walking downtown and seeing a pregnant teen pushing a snotty nosed toddler in a cheap umbrella stroller walking with 2 preschoolers with sticky kool aid faces sipping on kool aid from their "bubbas" all the time while smoking a fag and exposing the unborn baby to toxic smoke. and they wear thoes pre pregnancy tank tops with their baby belly hanging out for the world to see.
Jesus, that should tell you right their, if you cant afford maternity clothing then don't have sex and get knocked up.
I dont think everyone should wait until marriage, each to their own with that but they should wait until they are capable in all ways to handle the consequences.
well thats my take on things.
and sorry in advanced if any of you are the teen mom with the fag pushing the snotty nosed tot in the umbrella stroller, I didn't mean to offend you and it was a general comment not directed to any person in particular.
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Hi Amanda, no need to bring Jesus into this please its offensive to other people like me that has a relationship with Jesus Christ, why not curse satan or other gods, why curse the one who made you just to express yourself and your opinion..its bad taste

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I didn't have sex until I was 18 years old. I lost my virginity to another virgin. We've only dated eachother, we purchased a condo together, we got married, a year later we tried for a child, we now have 1 child I had at 25. Up until we were "ready" (nobody at any age is READY for what a child entails) I was on the pill! We used condoms pretty much everytime until we were married!



We've been together for 9 years now. According to a lot of people I should be put in the books as a Saint (except I had sex BEFORE marriage). You know what I don't feel that way.



Often times I regret and feel cheated I'll never know what it's like with ANYONE else. He's stated he feels the same way sometimes. Really after waiting until 18 I'm scared shitless at the thought of having sex with anyone else. The idea of having sex with someone who has had sex with other people makes me sick to my stomach. However at 27 now good luck finding a virgin guy and not going to jail for child rape!



I envy the girls I went to school with who have had experiences with other men! Sex at 16 doesn't bother me so much. The whole unprotected, irresponsible sex at 16 thing does. The only way I get that option now is if I cheat or get divorced!



In cultures around the world girls are married off to 50 year old men they do not know at 12! Their are girls sold into prostitution at 6! There are many far worse examples of far younger girls being exploited around the world that would probably appreciate people raging for their rights to choose.



Really if a 16 year old decides for herself to have sex with someone she "loves at the time" (teenage love I know, mind you I met my Husband at 17) and takes the proper precautions (condom, spermicide, pill, ect) I do not see a problem with it.



If an ooops happens I would hope they chose to adopt out the child, or raise it themselves than aborting. But that's not my place to say too much as I've never been in that situation and will never know how hard it is.



That is the big thing. I'll NEVER know what these girls experienced and know now. I can give my opinion, but it's just that.

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It wasn't thaat long ago when 13 yr old girls were married off and popping out babies....oh wait that still happens in islamic countries and the huterite/Omish/polygamist colonies.

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I was 17 when I had my first; Im now 21 with 3 beautiful children, a loving husband 2 yrs away from obtaining my undergrad degree (BA major concentration in English, minor concentration in Science. We're very happy and our kids have everything they need to be happy and healthy. Am I a perfect mom, no, is any mom perfect? Only Betty Crocker!

Devon - posted on 07/08/2009

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I think 16 year olds shouldn't be thinking about sex but it's going to happen. i think more parents need to talk more about sex with them because from what i here, that is what they want. if a 16 year old gets pregnant she has many choices that she can make and if she chooses to keep her baby then i think that she should have the responsibility to raise it and take care of it with a little help from her parents. i hate when i see young people who have kids and there parents are left to raise it. i was 19 when i had my twin girls and i was damned if i was going to let my parents raise them. it was my responsibility to raise and take care of them. a little help from parents doesn't hurt. but the way the world is today, there are more and more young people becoming pregnant and it is in a way sad, but what can anybody do about it?

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Quoting Marta:



Quoting Jamie:

Hell No 16yr olds shouldnt be having sex. as proven in other posts 16yr olds are dumb and will get talked into sex by some douchebag who just wants an easy lay. And 9 times out of 10 if the girl ends up pregnant the guy bails. Now we have teen moms who arent out of high school and support thier own kids and guess what, some of these idiots even go out and have more kids before 18. Um hello, how does dropping your panties help your situtaion. im sure there are some good moms out there that are 16, but I still doubt how smart they were for giving it up at an early age.I mean seriously, why not just buy a shirt that says "Im easy" Its disgusting and sick, its the same thing as child porn, cause guess what they are still children. Boys need to keep thier dick in their pants and girls need to keep thier panties on. Im tired of my tax dollars paying for stupid teenage girls rather then those who really need it. Stupid hoes. Hows that for honest!






You can't generalize! Some of those teen moms weren't given a choice on whether or not to "keep their panties on" as you put it; and they still choose to honour the responsibility of parenthood and the sanctity of life. I was lucky enough to find a man who would love me and marry me and provide for me and my kids (one as a result of a sexually abusive relationship the other two are my hubbys). Although I do agree that 16 is too young but I also think that if a girl decides to take on that responsibility and does her best by choosing to continue her education while living on welfare so she can provide a brighter future fo her child then I think she's an amazing woman and deserves great respect.





Yes! Thankyou! It's extremely ignorant of people to generalise like that!

Marta - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Jamie:

Hell No 16yr olds shouldnt be having sex. as proven in other posts 16yr olds are dumb and will get talked into sex by some douchebag who just wants an easy lay. And 9 times out of 10 if the girl ends up pregnant the guy bails. Now we have teen moms who arent out of high school and support thier own kids and guess what, some of these idiots even go out and have more kids before 18. Um hello, how does dropping your panties help your situtaion. im sure there are some good moms out there that are 16, but I still doubt how smart they were for giving it up at an early age.I mean seriously, why not just buy a shirt that says "Im easy" Its disgusting and sick, its the same thing as child porn, cause guess what they are still children. Boys need to keep thier dick in their pants and girls need to keep thier panties on. Im tired of my tax dollars paying for stupid teenage girls rather then those who really need it. Stupid hoes. Hows that for honest!



You can't generalize! Some of those teen moms weren't given a choice on whether or not to "keep their panties on" as you put it; and they still choose to honour the responsibility of parenthood and the sanctity of life. I was lucky enough to find a man who would love me and marry me and provide for me and my kids (one as a result of a sexually abusive relationship the other two are my hubbys). Although I do agree that 16 is too young but I also think that if a girl decides to take on that responsibility and does her best by choosing to continue her education while living on welfare so she can provide a brighter future fo her child then I think she's an amazing woman and deserves great respect.

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Quoting Jamie:

Hell No 16yr olds shouldnt be having sex. as proven in other posts 16yr olds are dumb and will get talked into sex by some douchebag who just wants an easy lay. And 9 times out of 10 if the girl ends up pregnant the guy bails. Now we have teen moms who arent out of high school and support thier own kids and guess what, some of these idiots even go out and have more kids before 18. Um hello, how does dropping your panties help your situtaion. im sure there are some good moms out there that are 16, but I still doubt how smart they were for giving it up at an early age.I mean seriously, why not just buy a shirt that says "Im easy" Its disgusting and sick, its the same thing as child porn, cause guess what they are still children. Boys need to keep thier dick in their pants and girls need to keep thier panties on. Im tired of my tax dollars paying for stupid teenage girls rather then those who really need it. Stupid hoes. Hows that for honest!



You can't generalize! Some of those teen moms weren't given a choice on whether or not to "keep their panties on" as you put it; and they still choose to honour the responsibility of parenthood and the sanctity of life. I was lucky enough to find a man who would love me and marry me and provide for me and my kids (one as a result of a sexually abusive relationship the other two are my hubbys). Although I do agree that 16 is too young but I also think that if a girl decides to take on that responsibility and does her best by choosing to continue her education while living on welfare so she can provide a brighter future fo her child then I think she's an amazing woman and deserves great respect.

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I believe that the PARENTS Should keep this in their homes and decide for their children. My step mom had her son at age 16. She is probably the most hardworking good mothers out there. She went to high school graduated, and then graduated from college. There is also adoptions...I don't believe Abortion should be the case, if something were to happen. I also hope that I can teach my daughter right from wrong. I won't look down upon if she does get pregnant (hoping my heavenly stars she won't), I will be there for her no matter what. She will have to deal with it and be responsible.

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I started having sex at 16, I lived in a small town, and there was a lot of peer pressure. I like to say that I will not regret any decision I've ever made... but... if there is one thing I regret it's that I was not a virgin when I met my husband. I was not ready in anyway, physically, emotionally, etc. And to be honest it wasn't even good! Consider that your 16, he's probably not that much older, if any, um... trust me, it's most likely not even worth it. I got very lucky to not get pregnant or catch anything when I was younger. I now have a 17 yr old sister, and I do worry about her making the same choices I did, she has too many dreams to mess it up and I've told her that. I would have to say that if she chooses to make that decision then I hope beyond hope that she's smart and doesn't end up with a little one before its time. My mom and I always joke whenever my son spits up or starts fussing with my sister- we're always saying, "well keep this in mind later tonight or this weekend" lol. But, I would have to say that 16 yr olds are gonna do it, its the raging hormones and the yearning to be grown up already, the best thing we can do for them is just to make sure they are aware of the consequences and try to help keep them safe by offering forms of birth control for use. I won't say that ppl who got pregnant at 16 are stupid, or trashy, or whatever, b/c I've known plenty of teen moms who are wonderful parents, who worked- supported themselves and their children with a job, finished high school and so on.

I've seen the stereo type of the teen mom on welfare... I see hundreds of moms in their 20's and 30's just having kid after kid so that they can get more $$ from the gov. Most teen moms I've seen have fallen back on their parents for help, not the government. But thats just me.

Breonna - posted on 07/08/2009

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Quoting Michelle:



Quoting Samantha:




Quoting Michelle:





Quoting Samantha:

There is honestly not a lot of woman or men that wait until they are "adults" until having sex. I must say that a lot of the adults out there should not be having sex either. Age is irrelevant to having sex. There are 16 year olds out there that are way more mature then people that are older. It all depends on that one person. You can't categorize all 16 year olds as little children. They are old enough to understand the repercussions of having sex. Why should it matter if they choose to have sex or not.

There are older people out there living on welfare having babies that they don't take care of and basically acting like a child. people are not just paying taxes to take care of young mothers.

I had sex when I was 16 years old. We moved out after high school together. He went to college and so did I and we had my daughter when I was 23. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for almost 7 years now. Just because people are having sex in high school doesn't mean that they will not be with that person. He was my one and only partner as I was his one and only partner. We are not irresponsible and we were not irresponsible when we were 16 and chose to have sex with one another.

Also about the getting engaged and then waiting a long time to get married. Did it ever occur to you that maybe some people cannot afford to get married yet and just don't want to go and pay for a slip of paper. I have been engaged for a year and a half and am not planning on getting married for another few years yet. We are saving up for a nice wedding. We chose to get engaged because we love each other and wanted to celebrate that.









and did it occur to you that a wedding is a waste of money that could better be spend on the downpayment or a house or your kids college fund?












I actually have a college fund already going for my daughter and has been going since she was born.  I want to celebrate me and by fiances life and if I choose to wait and save up for a wedding that is my choice no one else's.  This is something him and me have discussed and it is what we have chosen to do.  It is not like we would through all of our money into a wedding we are very mature with our money and have many saving accounts going for other things that we aspire for.









if you were very mature you would have gotten married prior to getting knocked up





this isn't the old days where people need to get married the second they find out their prego. Maybe she wasn't ready then and that's fine.. you seriously crack me up. You must be friggin perfect to be sitting her judging everyone else.

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So when Ur daughters fuck up and have sex @ 16.. r u going to call her a "skanky slut?

some mother's u'd be










Wont have to my daughter isnt stupid enough to do it. She is raised properly.  And feel free to smack me, Im sure your a skanky slut im talking about. Seems its only the skanky sluts that have a problem with what I have to say and you should be slapped for doing it. Didnt your mama teach you any self respect? Didnt your mama teach you to respect your body and not give it up to the first dick that walked by and got hard for you? Seriously, your a skanky skut if you give it up at 16 and must have not have been raised with high self esteem. As far as Im concerned any man to get in my pants is damn lucky because this is on prized pussy. You may not think so, but I do and Im not gonna just let some dude park his car in my garage because everyone else is doing it, or cause he might tell people we did it any ways. Who cares what he says? I know it didnt happen. I got called a slut many times in high school because I wouldnt give it up and I was proud of that.













All the self-assurance in the world is not going to change the fact that you have absolutely NO CLUE what your daughter will be like as a teenager--whether or not she was "raised properly"...








It does no good to point out the offensiveness and immaturity of your words, so go ahead and think that you are ahead of the curve on this one...because you are only fooling yourself if you believe that what you say means anything more than the pathetic rantings of an obviously-pissed-off young woman with a very large chip on her shoulder.










Jamie I gotta say you are insane if you assume that your daughter will keep her legs shut as a teen. It just doesnt happens these days. I had a friend in highschool who was raised to be the perfect angel she could do no wrong and came from a god fearing home and catholic school. When I met her in Highschool she though that sperm could jump through denim and get your pregnant. Sex can be a beautiful thing if you respect the act . That friend went on to university and screwed everything in sight out of frustration  and anger because she had been lied to for so many years. Luckly she never ended up pregnant but she was luckly. On the other hand my mother told me the facts and left the rest up to me to make my own decisions. I could have had sex many times with all the wrong people but I didnt I made the right decisions all on my own. I am now a mother of two (for the judgemental ones out there yes its with the same father and yes we are married).  16 isnt a bad age for sex as long as they know the truth about it. Just be glad they arent 10.






. she's disgusting and I hope her children don't have to listen to the garbage that comes out of her mouth.

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So when Ur daughters fuck up and have sex @ 16.. r u going to call her a "skanky slut?

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Wont have to my daughter isnt stupid enough to do it. She is raised properly.  And feel free to smack me, Im sure your a skanky slut im talking about. Seems its only the skanky sluts that have a problem with what I have to say and you should be slapped for doing it. Didnt your mama teach you any self respect? Didnt your mama teach you to respect your body and not give it up to the first dick that walked by and got hard for you? Seriously, your a skanky skut if you give it up at 16 and must have not have been raised with high self esteem. As far as Im concerned any man to get in my pants is damn lucky because this is on prized pussy. You may not think so, but I do and Im not gonna just let some dude park his car in my garage because everyone else is doing it, or cause he might tell people we did it any ways. Who cares what he says? I know it didnt happen. I got called a slut many times in high school because I wouldnt give it up and I was proud of that.






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So when Ur daughters fuck up and have sex @ 16.. r u going to call her a "skanky slut?

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Wont have to my daughter isnt stupid enough to do it. She is raised properly.  And feel free to smack me, Im sure your a skanky slut im talking about. Seems its only the skanky sluts that have a problem with what I have to say and you should be slapped for doing it. Didnt your mama teach you any self respect? Didnt your mama teach you to respect your body and not give it up to the first dick that walked by and got hard for you? Seriously, your a skanky skut if you give it up at 16 and must have not have been raised with high self esteem. As far as Im concerned any man to get in my pants is damn lucky because this is on prized pussy. You may not think so, but I do and Im not gonna just let some dude park his car in my garage because everyone else is doing it, or cause he might tell people we did it any ways. Who cares what he says? I know it didnt happen. I got called a slut many times in high school because I wouldnt give it up and I was proud of that.










All the self-assurance in the world is not going to change the fact that you have absolutely NO CLUE what your daughter will be like as a teenager--whether or not she was "raised properly"...






It does no good to point out the offensiveness and immaturity of your words, so go ahead and think that you are ahead of the curve on this one...because you are only fooling yourself if you believe that what you say means anything more than the pathetic rantings of an obviously-pissed-off young woman with a very large chip on her shoulder.






Jamie I gotta say you are insane if you assume that your daughter will keep her legs shut as a teen. It just doesnt happens these days. I had a friend in highschool who was raised to be the perfect angel she could do no wrong and came from a god fearing home and catholic school. When I met her in Highschool she though that sperm could jump through denim and get your pregnant. Sex can be a beautiful thing if you respect the act . That friend went on to university and screwed everything in sight out of frustration  and anger because she had been lied to for so many years. Luckly she never ended up pregnant but she was luckly. On the other hand my mother told me the facts and left the rest up to me to make my own decisions. I could have had sex many times with all the wrong people but I didnt I made the right decisions all on my own. I am now a mother of two (for the judgemental ones out there yes its with the same father and yes we are married).  16 isnt a bad age for sex as long as they know the truth about it. Just be glad they arent 10.

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thanks Kirsty :) yeah your right i broke up with him because i thought i was in love with an ex. the silly things teenager girls do :( but i made the right choice in the end even id i had to go to his door step to get him to talk to me LOL. thanks xx

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hi melissa well im really glad that its worked out for you and you are happy now,i know there are plenty of couples that av been together since there teens but i guess they must be the few that are grown up enough to cope with a honest relationship and the respect that each other deserves and when it comes to your relationship maybe the split was what you needed to make you both realise how much you meant to each other and even though i dont know you im happy for you

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well Kirsty im commited now and was at 16, but my partner and i broke up. i was lost i guess single and all id wanted since i was a kid was commitment and a family. i hurt guys to. i hurt them because i told them it meant nothing. i got nothing from it either i actually got bored half the time lol. it was just my way i guess. after that i got back with my partner fell pregnant in the same month and we now have a 15 month old daughter. so it all works out how its meant 2

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ok i agree some girls enjoy it and the word slut is not a nice name but as your growing up thats the word you here alot wen girls are sleeping around and trying things out,i didnt sleep with anyone else until i was almost 18 after a bad experiance at 16 and im personally glad i did wait after it but i know not everyone feels the same,i have a sister and a auntie who are now 19 but both of them av kids and both with the fathers which im glad about for there sakes but i know they slept around from about 15 and my parents and grandparents went mad about but couldnt do nothing to stop them and then i have a older sister that didnt sleep with anyone till she was 20 so it just shows everyone does have different thoughts on this matter but i still think 16 is too young as you are a kid still and i have seen the affects it has wen everything goes wrong but if it doesnt go wrong for some people then im glad its worked out

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hi i lost my viginity at 16 and i honestly regret it as even though id been with the lad a while he always talked about it and i wasnt intrested but with the pressure of him going on and on i caved in and the day after he ended it and then went with my friend a few days after so i felt cheap and dirty and also dissapointed with myself,so many girls sleep around and have one night stands from sixteen and sometimes younger which i think is completerly wrong and they are sluts for doing it,i have neva had a one night stand and never will and i think girls need to think more of themselfs and say no until they are older and ready,i think 18 is a beter age but even if they brought a law out i dont think it will stop them,i had my first child at 19 and my second at 21 but i would still say to any girl out there to wait as they have the rest of there lives to go through all this growing up,just enjoy being young going out with friends not thinking they need a man and settle down,im a qualified hairdresser which has gone out the window for now but im hoping to get bk into it sometime,im lucky im with my partner and happy but there is too many young girls on there own with kids and are kids themselfs and i think alot of these babies are concieved from sleeping around and its not fair on these babies that are being brought up in this world with parents that think its ok to put them in there buggy and go hang out by the shops with there mates or leave them with anyone who will have them so i am 100% against sex at 16 thankyou





I think the terms 'slut', 'skank' and 'whore' and any other term that refers to a promiscuous woman is a pathetic attempt to stamp a label on a person's freedom to experience sex in whatever way they choose.  Having a one-night stand does not render a woman irresponsible, slutty or any other stupid word you can muster.  Having a one-night stand unprotected is irresponsible, that much I can agree on--but it still does not make a woman a slut or a skank, etc...






I believe that these derrogatory terms are used as a comfort for the person saying them, rather than as an effective label for the women they feel deserve to be rendered lesser citizens for their sexual behaviours.  Perhaps it is true that having sex at a young age is not a wise choice as 16-year-olds still have a few years of their adolescence left to go through, but owning the opinion that "girls need to think more of themselves" comes with many, extremely complex societal ramifications.  It's not as simple as telling girls that they have their entire lives to grow up and perhaps your opinion would be vastly different if you stepped outside of your own bubble and considered this situation from all sides (you had sex at a young age and it has very obviously left you with an emotional scar that you seem unwilling to forgive in other girls)...Consider all sides before you jump in with your final judgment!






i agree it doesnt make a girl a slut if they do one night stands that is their prerogative. i was doing one night stands (with only male friends tho) for 2 months when i was single, i always used protection i was not irresponsible or anything. but its a choice some people make when they are going thru a rough time. doesnt make them a bad person and it doesnt even mean they get anything from the sex. its just a faze

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hi i lost my viginity at 16 and i honestly regret it as even though id been with the lad a while he always talked about it and i wasnt intrested but with the pressure of him going on and on i caved in and the day after he ended it and then went with my friend a few days after so i felt cheap and dirty and also dissapointed with myself,so many girls sleep around and have one night stands from sixteen and sometimes younger which i think is completerly wrong and they are sluts for doing it,i have neva had a one night stand and never will and i think girls need to think more of themselfs and say no until they are older and ready,i think 18 is a beter age but even if they brought a law out i dont think it will stop them,i had my first child at 19 and my second at 21 but i would still say to any girl out there to wait as they have the rest of there lives to go through all this growing up,just enjoy being young going out with friends not thinking they need a man and settle down,im a qualified hairdresser which has gone out the window for now but im hoping to get bk into it sometime,im lucky im with my partner and happy but there is too many young girls on there own with kids and are kids themselfs and i think alot of these babies are concieved from sleeping around and its not fair on these babies that are being brought up in this world with parents that think its ok to put them in there buggy and go hang out by the shops with there mates or leave them with anyone who will have them so i am 100% against sex at 16 thankyou


I think the terms 'slut', 'skank' and 'whore' and any other term that refers to a promiscuous woman is a pathetic attempt to stamp a label on a person's freedom to experience sex in whatever way they choose.  Having a one-night stand does not render a woman irresponsible, slutty or any other stupid word you can muster.  Having a one-night stand unprotected is irresponsible, that much I can agree on--but it still does not make a woman a slut or a skank, etc...



I believe that these derrogatory terms are used as a comfort for the person saying them, rather than as an effective label for the women they feel deserve to be rendered lesser citizens for their sexual behaviours.  Perhaps it is true that having sex at a young age is not a wise choice as 16-year-olds still have a few years of their adolescence left to go through, but owning the opinion that "girls need to think more of themselves" comes with many, extremely complex societal ramifications.  It's not as simple as telling girls that they have their entire lives to grow up and perhaps your opinion would be vastly different if you stepped outside of your own bubble and considered this situation from all sides (you had sex at a young age and it has very obviously left you with an emotional scar that you seem unwilling to forgive in other girls)...Consider all sides before you jump in with your final judgment!

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hi i lost my viginity at 16 and i honestly regret it as even though id been with the lad a while he always talked about it and i wasnt intrested but with the pressure of him going on and on i caved in and the day after he ended it and then went with my friend a few days after so i felt cheap and dirty and also dissapointed with myself,so many girls sleep around and have one night stands from sixteen and sometimes younger which i think is completerly wrong and they are sluts for doing it,i have neva had a one night stand and never will and i think girls need to think more of themselfs and say no until they are older and ready,i think 18 is a beter age but even if they brought a law out i dont think it will stop them,i had my first child at 19 and my second at 21 but i would still say to any girl out there to wait as they have the rest of there lives to go through all this growing up,just enjoy being young going out with friends not thinking they need a man and settle down,im a qualified hairdresser which has gone out the window for now but im hoping to get bk into it sometime,im lucky im with my partner and happy but there is too many young girls on there own with kids and are kids themselfs and i think alot of these babies are concieved from sleeping around and its not fair on these babies that are being brought up in this world with parents that think its ok to put them in there buggy and go hang out by the shops with there mates or leave them with anyone who will have them so i am 100% against sex at 16 thankyou

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a have reead sum nasty stuff on here n ppl saying 16yr olds shudnt have sex erm hello in england 16 is the legal age 2 have sex. a was only 16 when a 1st had sex n it was no mistake as am still with that lad 2 day n we have a son whos 4 in september and a baby girl on the way n we r only 21 but happy and wudn have it any otha way just because we r young dnt mean we cnt make gd parents.

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That is true much of the problem is with Fathers. When fathers step up and spend time with their little girls and show them they are worth while, the daughters will stop going to little boys to get attention and when the fathers start showing the young boys how a man should treat a woman with respect they will stop using them as trophies. The problem will not be solved over night and it certainly wont be solved by name calling and looking down your nose at others "mistakes" since we all make them but it can be helped and much of it prevented before hand my talking to them and showing them the love they are really looking for. They just want someone to pay attention to them.



I strongly agree and disagree with what you said. I am a single mother of two girls going thru divorce and yes it has been very rough. I am also a daughter who grew up without knowing her real father instead i grew up with a stepfather. My step dad was not a major role model in my life my mother was both parents. Having said that to say this that my soon to be ex husband will be a big problem in my daughters lives. Reason being this is his second divorce and he has had no problem bouncing from one relationship to the next dragging women in and out of my childrens lives. Now what part do you think is wrong with that? What kind of example is my ex setting for his children that it is ok to sleep around and that marriage is joke. During his first divorce he got engaged to another woman and wasnt divorced yet dumped her to only go out with me the very next week ( my regret trust me). We married for me to only find out i married a man who was a wife beater and a liar and he hid it well. My oldest daughter and i are suffering due to the abuse we both have gone thru reason why she clings to me instead of my ex. She is only 3 and she has told me that she does not want to go to daddy's house she wants to stay with me. What wrong with this picture? So now we are divorcing and he has been thru serveral relationships and is engaged again and we arent even divorced yet its been almost 2 years. So i have to be both parents to my children and teach them that what their dad is doing is wrong and he has no respect for women at all. As a mother i would rather him not be involved since all he is going to do it cause pain.

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So when Ur daughters fuck up and have sex @ 16.. r u going to call her a "skanky slut?

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Wont have to my daughter isnt stupid enough to do it. She is raised properly.  And feel free to smack me, Im sure your a skanky slut im talking about. Seems its only the skanky sluts that have a problem with what I have to say and you should be slapped for doing it. Didnt your mama teach you any self respect? Didnt your mama teach you to respect your body and not give it up to the first dick that walked by and got hard for you? Seriously, your a skanky skut if you give it up at 16 and must have not have been raised with high self esteem. As far as Im concerned any man to get in my pants is damn lucky because this is on prized pussy. You may not think so, but I do and Im not gonna just let some dude park his car in my garage because everyone else is doing it, or cause he might tell people we did it any ways. Who cares what he says? I know it didnt happen. I got called a slut many times in high school because I wouldnt give it up and I was proud of that.






All the self-assurance in the world is not going to change the fact that you have absolutely NO CLUE what your daughter will be like as a teenager--whether or not she was "raised properly"...



It does no good to point out the offensiveness and immaturity of your words, so go ahead and think that you are ahead of the curve on this one...because you are only fooling yourself if you believe that what you say means anything more than the pathetic rantings of an obviously-pissed-off young woman with a very large chip on her shoulder.

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this isnt a support thread. did you read the oppening post? it is a thread for debateing, this is a debate thread which means anything goes. cant handle the nasty? well there are plenty of milder threads where people enjoy pussy footing around subjects because they are scared to say what they really think. Maybe you will enjoy one of thoes threads.









OMG, diplomacy isn't pussyfooting around, and LOL I am certainly not scared to say what I think.  My opinion was in my post, I was just suprised to see so many people calling sex at 16 trashy.  That is the national average age of first time sex.  And it is actually much younger in many other countries.  So, its okay to have sex at 16.  I don't regret my first, it was a good decision, even if we didn't stay together too long.  I was old enough, he was old enough, we were okay.  And no, I wasn't trashy then or now. 






 





A debate does not mean that anything goes Amanda.  When you enter into a debate, you debate the facts--free of personal feelings or judgment.  You cannot even argue that this thread has any merit as a debate forum, because for one it is poorly structured, and two, all anyone seems interested in, is having a good laugh at young teens having sex, and offering nothing more than a cowardly viewpoint.  If you want your opinions to have merit in a discussion, then try affecting the conversation with your words, rather than adding a sound bite just for shits and giggles.  Certainly you have gained the attention of many other attention-needy people looking for a good trash n' bash...but the misfortune that you will ultimately suffer is that what you say means nothing of value and will be forgotten once the novelty of such an immature thread wears off.

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That is true much of the problem is with Fathers. When fathers step up and spend time with their little girls and show them they are worth while, the daughters will stop going to little boys to get attention and when the fathers start showing the young boys how a man should treat a woman with respect they will stop using them as trophies. The problem will not be solved over night and it certainly wont be solved by name calling and looking down your nose at others "mistakes" since we all make them but it can be helped and much of it prevented before hand my talking to them and showing them the love they are really looking for. They just want someone to pay attention to them.

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ok it's tough enough being married and having the privilege of staying home with your kids and having a support system cause you never know what they are gonna stick up their nose or get really sick or just flat out refuse. But throw in an underdeveloped brain (studies show the reason element in your brain is NOT developed till 20), no life skills, a job that wont support your self and a kid (if you even have one at all), and doing a 500 word report due by Monday when your baby is screaming and needs to be changed and fed and your depressed cause you have no help cause your "boyfriend" left cause he just wants to be a kid himself. Yeah um stupid idea. I have friends now that are single and have kids and they are going through a very hard time.

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After reading some of these posts im rather disgusted at some of the women. We are all titled to our own opinion but how can you judge someone when you have never been in there shoes. You can say all day how wrong it is but those are just words that have no affect on todays teens. They could really care less. Its a stupid decision to have sex that young but these girls arent all skanks are sluts. Most of them come from bad families, or never had a father figure to teach them about men. These girls dont need to be bashed by women they need to be guided by STRONG confident women who are not going to sit here and say hateful things about them, its absolutely disgusting. and why is it no one on here bashes the stupid 16 yr old boys. It takes two to tengo. We need to help these young women

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I personally think 16 is young to be having sex. But let's face the reality- there are more 16 yr. olds are having sex than 16 yr. olds who remain abstinent. Sex at 16 beats sex at 12 in my book. And I'm not going to knock someone who gets pregnant young because everyone's different. Some people plan to have kids young, and some decide to have kids old. Some people- yes, even 16 yr. olds- can be responsible and mature depending on how they were raised. I'm just saying this because I personally know young mothers- not 16, but 18- who are better parents than 30 yr. old women. Some people are just focused in life, and have their act together to deal with certain situations better than others....it all depends on the person's maturity.

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I personally think 16 is young to be having sex. But let's face the reality- there are more 16 yr. olds are having sex than 16 yr. olds who remain abstinent. Sex at 16 beats sex at 12 in my book. And I'm not going to knock someone who gets pregnant young because everyone's different. Some people plan to have kids young, and some decide to have kids old. Some people- yes, even 16 yr. olds- can be responsible and mature depending on how they were raised. I'm just saying this because I personally know young mothers- not 16, but 18- who are better parents than 30 yr. old women. Some people are just focused in life, and have their act together to deal with certain situations better than others....it all depends on the person's maturity.

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i was 18 when i had sex. In my opinion and im a very open minded person. In todays society there are a lot of issues that some parents do not address to their children. Sex is one of many but i think there are lot more bigger issues than sex. You can be the best parent in the world and have many discussions with your children but will they listen! How many of you can say that you never listened to your parents? I will be the first to say that i havent but my mother taught me a lot about morals, values and to be a leader not a follower. As a parent i will do the best i can to give my kids the knowledge they need to guide them thru life. If my children choose to have sex i will not yell, scream, curse or belittle them its their choice. I dont want to be the parent that my children dont want to talk too and i think that is where some parents make their mistakes. Becoming a parent means you are the teacher, doctor, theorpist, best friend but most of all at the end of the day you will always be Mom. Give them the tools they need and they will thank you later.

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hahaha. my cousin stripped for a living since she had her daughter 20 yrs ago. well not anymore but she used to. her motto was jump on them jump off and show them the door.
























Haha..I danced and bartending at strip clubs for 8 years until I get prego and now me and my hubby are about to start an adult site so we can both stay home with our son eventually. We were both in the industry, their are plently of porn stars that have children..lol. I bartend now but I would rather be home with the little one.






















ohyou learn something new every day! never would have picked it! yeah my cousin is 37 now with 6 kids and one grand kid and she started her own company called spank never really got going tho she didnt have enough girls. all the parents of foster kids she took in hated her, they used to send men to her door for sex and tell them she was a prostitute. anyways i dont reckon i could lead that kind of life, like me and partner same time it wouldnt be for me, especially if it involved being intimate with someone else, but hey ive seen it all from my cousin so nothing fazes me now haha


















haha...I wont be having sex with anyone but my hubby now and havent since we have been together. I am doing a site geared towards me, he will be on it but I will do a lot of solo stuff on as well. I am not ashamed of who I am and never have been. I just can't wait to see what that bitch has to say about me..lmfao















Haha Good on ya nicole your a fuckin legend !, that job might not be for everyone but its a job and one you are enjoying with your hubby , your child will obviously grow up in a very sexually liberal family which i dont find a bad thing , those children are usually the ones with the least sexual hangups and when its not so taboo it probably wont be as inviting say as a strict family that say sex is BAD < BAD < BAD  Hello , thats just gonna make them wanna find out more ! if thats what you do than all the power to ya babe !












Well thank you Loureen. And you are probably right about my son growing up that way. I think the mothers on here who are holier than thou will have the kids sneaking behind there backs and having sex not being protecting. My parents had the sex talk with me young. I was always careful and didn't get pregnant till I was 28 and ready to have my first child. My son will grow up and know what sex is and how to be safe.








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porni gurls is sluts. dats jus rong. yer a maw and yer in pornis?  lest yer shal have sex wit the babes dad but din that yer still rong. lest mi not a skank, least mi tri to have babes with da dads.





LMFAO ......says the chick who popped her cherry at 10 , and has 4 kids by 16 ( apparently) do they have the same daddy ? haha you are hilarious.

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Loureen - your right doesnt mean the chidl will turn out bad my cousins first born did not have sex til she was 17 which is good compared to most, her other kids are still under 13 and not even close to having sex.



Rhonda - miss i cant spell, what are u doing having so many kids when you dont even know how to write plain english. fucking retard. your a joke.



Lisa - good point about the old days how women got married and started families much younger.

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Loureen - your right doesnt mean the chidl will turn out bad my cousins first born did not have sex til she was 17 which is good compared to most, her other kids are still under 13 and not even close to having sex.



Rhonda - miss i cant spell, what are u doing having so many kids when you dont even know how to write plain english. fucking retard. your a joke.



Lisa - good point about the old days how women got married and started families much younger.

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Haha..I danced and bartending at strip clubs for 8 years until I get prego and now me and my hubby are about to start an adult site so we can both stay home with our son eventually. We were both in the industry, their are plently of porn stars that have children..lol. I bartend now but I would rather be home with the little one.



















ohyou learn something new every day! never would have picked it! yeah my cousin is 37 now with 6 kids and one grand kid and she started her own company called spank never really got going tho she didnt have enough girls. all the parents of foster kids she took in hated her, they used to send men to her door for sex and tell them she was a prostitute. anyways i dont reckon i could lead that kind of life, like me and partner same time it wouldnt be for me, especially if it involved being intimate with someone else, but hey ive seen it all from my cousin so nothing fazes me now haha















haha...I wont be having sex with anyone but my hubby now and havent since we have been together. I am doing a site geared towards me, he will be on it but I will do a lot of solo stuff on as well. I am not ashamed of who I am and never have been. I just can't wait to see what that bitch has to say about me..lmfao












Haha Good on ya nicole your a fuckin legend !, that job might not be for everyone but its a job and one you are enjoying with your hubby , your child will obviously grow up in a very sexually liberal family which i dont find a bad thing , those children are usually the ones with the least sexual hangups and when its not so taboo it probably wont be as inviting say as a strict family that say sex is BAD < BAD < BAD  Hello , thats just gonna make them wanna find out more ! if thats what you do than all the power to ya babe !









Well thank you Loureen. And you are probably right about my son growing up that way. I think the mothers on here who are holier than thou will have the kids sneaking behind there backs and having sex not being protecting. My parents had the sex talk with me young. I was always careful and didn't get pregnant till I was 28 and ready to have my first child. My son will grow up and know what sex is and how to be safe.






Thanks for the support....:)





porni gurls is sluts. dats jus rong. yer a maw and yer in pornis?  lest yer shal have sex wit the babes dad but din that yer still rong. lest mi not a skank, least mi tri to have babes with da dads.

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haha Nichole you crack me up i love seeing you deal with these people :)















Maybe I should post some website on here for her to see me on so she would really freak out...lmao






















hahaha. my cousin stripped for a living since she had her daughter 20 yrs ago. well not anymore but she used to. her motto was jump on them jump off and show them the door.


















Haha..I danced and bartending at strip clubs for 8 years until I get prego and now me and my hubby are about to start an adult site so we can both stay home with our son eventually. We were both in the industry, their are plently of porn stars that have children..lol. I bartend now but I would rather be home with the little one.
















ohyou learn something new every day! never would have picked it! yeah my cousin is 37 now with 6 kids and one grand kid and she started her own company called spank never really got going tho she didnt have enough girls. all the parents of foster kids she took in hated her, they used to send men to her door for sex and tell them she was a prostitute. anyways i dont reckon i could lead that kind of life, like me and partner same time it wouldnt be for me, especially if it involved being intimate with someone else, but hey ive seen it all from my cousin so nothing fazes me now haha












haha...I wont be having sex with anyone but my hubby now and havent since we have been together. I am doing a site geared towards me, he will be on it but I will do a lot of solo stuff on as well. I am not ashamed of who I am and never have been. I just can't wait to see what that bitch has to say about me..lmfao









Haha Good on ya nicole your a fuckin legend !, that job might not be for everyone but its a job and one you are enjoying with your hubby , your child will obviously grow up in a very sexually liberal family which i dont find a bad thing , those children are usually the ones with the least sexual hangups and when its not so taboo it probably wont be as inviting say as a strict family that say sex is BAD < BAD < BAD  Hello , thats just gonna make them wanna find out more ! if thats what you do than all the power to ya babe !





Well thank you Loureen. And you are probably right about my son growing up that way. I think the mothers on here who are holier than thou will have the kids sneaking behind there backs and having sex not being protecting. My parents had the sex talk with me young. I was always careful and didn't get pregnant till I was 28 and ready to have my first child. My son will grow up and know what sex is and how to be safe.



Thanks for the support....:)

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No I son't think 16 yr. olds should not have sex. Thats to early to be having sex.

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well you are funny good work , i never heard such a load of bullshit ever on COM , suppose someone has to make a joke of all this , thanks for the laughs .



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well you are funny good work , i never heard such a load of bullshit ever on COM , suppose someone has to make a joke of all this , thanks for the laughs .

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Damien John Bruised Head Slipperysquirel..what a lovely name for your youngest :)damien







damien john gots his dad name. he no slipperysquirel. y makin fun ah mi last name. i aboriginal dis is haw we had or names








really i am aboriginal and that is a load of shit your disrespecting a whole culture .





y disrspect? dis is mi last name. i don fin it funny. i don lafe at u so u dont lafe at mi

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wuts the big del? I had sex wen i wus 10 and i hav 4 kids and am preggers again ,lol. my mom helps me out. i cwit schol becase i diddnt want to wake erly. i had sex case i like the feel it in thur. i am 16 now and da good thing bout bein a yung maw is dat wen i am lieke 25 all mi babes will be doneed up and me i can partys and doin my own thins and wit i still have a hawt bodie and goin to da clubs and kickeen ot wit my home gurls sharlene and mikah, lol I loved yas gurls.
I still like sexin wen im knocked up to.






All I can say is quitting school probably wasn't in your best interest. I don't think I've ever seen spelling and language that terrible, at least not written. Wow.





das big wurds is hard. scol was wast ah mi tiyme. mom takes cdare me kids so i can sleep lat

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Damien John Bruised Head Slipperysquirel..what a lovely name for your youngest :)damien


damien john gots his dad name. he no slipperysquirel. y makin fun ah mi last name. i aboriginal dis is haw we had or names

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Damien John Bruised Head Slipperysquirel..what a lovely name for your youngest :)damien


damien john gots his dad name. he no slipperysquirel. y makin fun ah mi last name. i aboriginal dis is haw we had or names

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haha Nichole you crack me up i love seeing you deal with these people :)













Maybe I should post some website on here for her to see me on so she would really freak out...lmao



















hahaha. my cousin stripped for a living since she had her daughter 20 yrs ago. well not anymore but she used to. her motto was jump on them jump off and show them the door.















Haha..I danced and bartending at strip clubs for 8 years until I get prego and now me and my hubby are about to start an adult site so we can both stay home with our son eventually. We were both in the industry, their are plently of porn stars that have children..lol. I bartend now but I would rather be home with the little one.













ohyou learn something new every day! never would have picked it! yeah my cousin is 37 now with 6 kids and one grand kid and she started her own company called spank never really got going tho she didnt have enough girls. all the parents of foster kids she took in hated her, they used to send men to her door for sex and tell them she was a prostitute. anyways i dont reckon i could lead that kind of life, like me and partner same time it wouldnt be for me, especially if it involved being intimate with someone else, but hey ive seen it all from my cousin so nothing fazes me now haha









haha...I wont be having sex with anyone but my hubby now and havent since we have been together. I am doing a site geared towards me, he will be on it but I will do a lot of solo stuff on as well. I am not ashamed of who I am and never have been. I just can't wait to see what that bitch has to say about me..lmfao





Haha Good on ya nicole your a fuckin legend !, that job might not be for everyone but its a job and one you are enjoying with your hubby , your child will obviously grow up in a very sexually liberal family which i dont find a bad thing , those children are usually the ones with the least sexual hangups and when its not so taboo it probably wont be as inviting say as a strict family that say sex is BAD < BAD < BAD  Hello , thats just gonna make them wanna find out more ! if thats what you do than all the power to ya babe !

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wuts the big del? I had sex wen i wus 10 and i hav 4 kids and am preggers again ,lol. my mom helps me out. i cwit schol becase i diddnt want to wake erly. i had sex case i like the feel it in thur. i am 16 now and da good thing bout bein a yung maw is dat wen i am lieke 25 all mi babes will be doneed up and me i can partys and doin my own thins and wit i still have a hawt bodie and goin to da clubs and kickeen ot wit my home gurls sharlene and mikah, lol I loved yas gurls.
I still like sexin wen im knocked up to.



All I can say is quitting school probably wasn't in your best interest. I don't think I've ever seen spelling and language that terrible, at least not written. Wow.

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