17 year old mom in need of advice

Linda - posted on 06/05/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Ohk so I jusst had my son about 12 days ago he is perfactly healthy his dad is in the picture he is 20 (older than me) but a little inmature I exoected him too mature but instead all of this has stressed him out soo much :o he doesnt help out that much occasionaly feeds him holds him always kissing him saying how cut he is though . But I am the on up at night when he cries its hard . At the moment we are both staying at my house but want too leave mostly because everyone at my house smokes either weed or cigs also we just saty in this room w/ no t.v it gets very boring for us .we'd like too mive into his house but everytime I mention it my mom gets super mad emotional tries too guilt me into staying basicaly or scates me w/ her anger from leaving I o romisee id stay two weeks annd they're almost up but if my b f isnt going too help me at night im not sure on what to do ? also i can't help but feel lonely maybe even depressedd like I can't get a hang of this mother thing sometines i dont even feel like his mom my mom always takes him from me acts like hes hers :o and constantly barges in the room. I miss the past kond of I jusst hope as he gets older things get easier

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Meriem - posted on 06/05/2013

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dont worry about others u need to give 110 per cent of yourself for your baby now... make sure theres no smoking in the area where the baby stay its really bad for him , and for the moment u dont have to expect everything from ur partner to help , iam single mom i did everything by myself waking up in the night feed him ....

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