20 year old engaged mom.

KeRashawn - posted on 08/05/2013 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I am 20 years old, in school for LPN, what held me back was when I had my first daughter who is now 11 months. I am now pregnant again. Not so happy, but its a blessing. My fiancé and I are STILL living with his mother!!!! I am so aggravated because I want to be out of this house so badly!! Its not like he doesn't have the money. He's 27, retired out of the Military, and REFUSES to buy a house!!!! What in the world could he be waiting for?????? I am sooo stressed because I do not want to be raising my SECOND child in his PARENT'S house. Can anyone tell me how to encourage him to MOVE, or how to talk to him about it in a way that we are NOT going to argue!!! I have been crying my eyes out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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KeRashawn - posted on 08/06/2013

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Yea we were ready for our first but our second really did kind of POP UP on us. I was on birth control pills after my daughter. I was in the process of switching to a different form because the pills were giving me problems. I got pregnant the SAME exact day I stopped taking them. But yea, after this one, I have already planned to get the IUD or the Implanion.

Jessibell - posted on 08/06/2013

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-Have an honest conversation about your living situation and the importance of having a proper family home. 27 is too old to be living in your parents home if you are financially capable of giving your wife and family a place to live. Perhaps rent for a year to prepare for buying.

-Maybe consider looking into birth control options after this child so that you can plan your family. (I am assuming the child was not planned due in fact to your statement "not so happy",)

Gena - posted on 08/06/2013

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Have you tried asking him why he doesnt want to move out?Ask him in a calm way and maybe you could make a list with him what would be pro/contra to move out.Try asking him without demanding to move out.And then tell him how you feel and why you want to move out.Good luck and congrats on baby #2

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