a sad lOss.....my beautiful baby bOy

Caz - posted on 02/11/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )

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new tO circle Of mOmmy's + just wanted tO intrOduce myself.... im Caz frOm sydney + im almOst 30, just expeienced a sad lOss my LiL baby bOy TalOn...at 22weeks i had tO give birth and Only gOt tO spend 13minutes Of TalOns life with him..

just hunting fOr sOme mOre mums that have suffered such pain..

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Melissa - posted on 02/12/2009

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Hello. My name is Melissa. My daughter was born at 23 weeks. She lived for 4 hours. I am so sorry that you had to go throught this. Time will smooth the sharp edges of grief and although I will never forget my baby, the memories I have now are only good ones and will stay with me forever.

Julie - posted on 02/12/2009

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Oh my, I can't even imagine how much pain you are going through now. I am so sorry about your loss, I don't even know the words to express.  There is another group on here of mom's who have suffered loss and they may be able to share some words of wisdom or at least a "virtual" shoulder since they have experienced similar tragedies. Just search in the communities section.

Jessica - posted on 02/12/2009

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Quoting Kristen:

Jessica I'm soo sorry for the lose of your baby an will be praying for u that God gives you strength to get threw it. I cannot image your pain, do know this to be absent from the body is to in the presents of Lord! Your baby is with God an I hope you can find comfort in knowing that.



Thanks Kristen, it does help to know that. She is my angel now. I miss her terribly, but everything happens for a reason, and its better for her to be with Him then to be here with me and suffering if she had a disease or something...  I have had 3 other little ones, and it was especially hard trying to explain to my oldest son why mommy and daddy didnt bring his sister home from the hospital.... Thanks for the encouraging words. She would be one now.. I take a flower to 'our tree' on her birthday. We have a special tree we planted in the park for her. :-)

Jennifer - posted on 02/12/2009

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I can't begin to imagine your pain.  I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your terasured little boy, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. 

Kristen - posted on 02/12/2009

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Jessica I'm soo sorry for the lose of your baby an will be praying for u that God gives you strength to get threw it. I cannot image your pain, do know this to be absent from the body is to in the presents of Lord! Your baby is with God an I hope you can find comfort in knowing that.

Jessica - posted on 02/12/2009

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Awww Im so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you. My only daughter died when I was 5 months pregnant with her, and I had to deliver her after she died.. We named her Mirielle Sophia. She was so small, but they let me hold her for a moment after she had already passed... I'm here if you need to talk, just send me a message, okay? Nothing will ever take the hurt away completely, but now you have an angel watching over you and your family... Try to stay strong, girl. The pain is overwhelming sometimes.. when she died, I begged the Lord to take me instead, to give my baby another chance at life.. of course I knew it wasnt going to happen, and then I just wanted to die with her. Do you have any other little ones?

Amy - posted on 02/12/2009

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I am so sorry. I have not been in your situation but my son was born a preemie and we weren't sure if he was going to be ok, he was ok and now is 7 years old. Keep your faith and stay strong.

Lizzy - posted on 02/11/2009

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My dearest friend Caz, I'm so sorry for your loss,and all I can offer you is my shoulder, to cry on, my ears to listen, my arms to give you lots of huggs, mlips to give you big kisses, and most of all my heart to give you lots of love,

always Lizzy XXXXXXXXXX

Laura - posted on 02/11/2009

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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have not experienced that so I really don't have any proper words but I just wanted to express my sympathies. I hope that you find peace and a little one in your arms someday soon.

Lucretia - posted on 02/11/2009

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sweety im so sorry for your and your family's loss may god bless you and ease your heart. my prays for you and your loss.

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