advice pls!!

Bonnien - posted on 02/08/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




Okay so I'm new to this page and I'm looking for advice about my ex partner, his the father of my daughter, anyways long story short, we havnt been together for over a year n half, his got a new girlfriend and they seem pretty serious. The first year of our daughters life was spent in hospital, after we finally got to take our beautiful daughter home, things started to heat up between him and I, and I ended it. But now I find myself thinking about him all the time, like I can't sleep anymore, this is where I'm confused, do I still love him because we didn't really make it work as we where more under stress over our daughter that we didn't see our own relationship coming to a end, or is it because I'm jealous that his got someone and I dnt and he can play the whole family thing with our daughter. I'm so lost I just dnt know what to do, can anyone give me any advice please!


Mary - posted on 02/09/2014




do you think it could be abit of both, you are going to have some sort of feelings for him as he is the father to your child, then you see your daughter playing happy famalies with him and his girlfriend, maybe you are feeling a little lonely in the love area of your life but remember at this moment in time you have your daughter to take up all your love, also never forget the grass is not always greener on the other side.
take time for yourself to get out have fun try to go on dates this relationship your ex has now might not even last if you are meant to be together it will happen but dont let things like this take over your mind, enjoy your life its the only one we have everything will fall into place when its meant too.

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