all you moms out there

Melissia - posted on 06/08/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )




I thought that this was a place where us moms could talk openly and get advice but I think I was wrong. I wrote something and asked for advice on a rather sensitive subject and nobody had the guts to respond. I hope you all enjoy speaking to other cowards just like your selfs


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Alex - posted on 06/08/2009




I have to admit I didn't see your first post, so I'll go and find it if I can. I generally only respond if I have something of worth to add, which being a first time mum isn't that often!!!

I know it can be really fustrating when you ask a question and you don't get answers. Usually when I ask something it's because I want help now, not in a day or two, but with us all being in different countries and time zones, most of my answers come thru over night. I know it's difficult, but try and be a patient :D

Christy - posted on 06/08/2009




YEAH Seriously!!!! I too just seen your post a few minutes ago and replied to. When I was done replying to it I seen this post. I see that U R very appreciative of our advice.

I hope that U receive the obvious much needed time to your self to relax!!

Traci - posted on 06/08/2009




Maybe nobody had the chance to reply yet. I read your post. I'm 29, too, but I didn't have my first until I was 22. For me, sure, I get tired and sometimes bored, but those moments when you get those tiny hugs and kisses from your kids makes it so worth it.

My kids are 6, 4, and 1. So I am BUSY! I get crabby from time to time with the ususal not being picked up, changing their clothes 10 times a day, not eating what is put in front of them...

That is all part of motherhood though. We all feel like you do at one point or another, you're not alone! That's why its important to have your kids go to bed on's nice to have couple hours of "mommy time" before bed to take a bath, clear your head, and relax before you sleep.

I don't think you needed to be so hostile, though to the moms on here. You must be having a bad day, I hope it gets better for you.

Kate CP - posted on 06/08/2009




You know, if you want compassion and understanding you've gone about it the wrong way. Some of us don't check this board every moment of the day every day so we didn't SEE your original post. I can understand your frustration and anger, but being rude and insulting is not going to get people to give you a pat on the back and tell you everything is okay. Take a deep breath and go soak in the tub. You need to chill out.

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