Angry,frustrated,lonely and FED UP

Shonda - posted on 06/04/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Hi I have been so stressed out lately it's not even funny. Me and my boyfriend (kids father) have been together almost 6 yrs and we always managed to get through our hard times. But it seems like now it's just starting to be too much. On top of the kids not listening at all , no matter how much we buy for them toys, etc , give them snacks and juice even when they don't listen I'm at my wits end. My boyfriend works fulltime Mon-Fri dayshift but when he comes home at the same time as my daughter gets home from school its like he needs a break and so do I because I 've been at home all day with my overly active , hyper 4yo son (LOVE HIM TO PIECES) ! We always do things with the kids to make sure their happy like take them to chuck E. cheese , parks. outside in the backyard, dollar store to buy things etc. The problem is me and him NEVER do anything together he never take me out and when I ask him why he say because we don't have the money. I am very young (22 ) and the last thing I want to be doing is sitting in the house on a hot beautiful day being bored with my boyfriend. Then when I tell him that I'm getting bored with him he gets mad and we start to argue. UGH!! I hate arguing with him and I think it's very un-healthy to argue in front of our kids. I'm just over being bored and arguing all the time. Is it time for us to parent in separate homes and move on in our own lives?? Please no negative or rude comments because I will give it right back to you :) !!

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Patrese - posted on 06/07/2013

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No problem, I joined this site to be helped and help others. So have things gotten better? I actually got back with my child father, we're arguing less and going to try fixing it. Leaving is easier said than done. We're in love also, idk what went wrong and when but we're going to work on it instead of giving up or running away. So don't feel bad if you stay ;)

Shonda - posted on 06/04/2013

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Thank you so much Patrese for reading my post and giving me the strength to move on. I love my boyfriend very much but he makes me miserable now. After we just had a argument lastnight he comes home after work today like it never happened. No apology or nothing smh. Everything was cool but 10min ago we started bickering because he wanted me to check the balance on my credit card , I told him I knew it already but he insited on me calling to check. I checked the balance told him then handed him the card and he said "no I don't want it anymore". I told him to act his age and walked away. Were going on a trip this month but when we come back we need to sit down and talk unless im really leaving. It's working on my nerves. P.s I told hom I think he's depressed

Patrese - posted on 06/04/2013

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I'm going thru the same thing but it's like how do you walk away from that. I have no one to talk too anymore so I finally exploded yesterday. Its gotten to the point where our daughter would cry and look for who's side to chose. The situation is very unhealthy for children of any age.its very unsettling also. Hope is the only reason I stayed. He didn't care to compromise, but there are other men out there willing too.I'll be 21 in August and I refuse to sit in the house all day waiting on him so I'm leaving. You can do the same, and you will once you become fed up.we're basically single parents raising our babies on our own, so why keep the added stress.honestly I don't want to leave but I'm tired of all the fussing and fighting, and unfortunately it has gotten physical. With our child around. He's not trying to make an effort to help so....

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