Another a**hole strikes again...

Michelle - posted on 07/16/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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5mths havent been with father since breaking up 2wks before finding out I was pregnant. He has come&gone stringing me along the whole time. Now @ 5mths hear he has had gf the whole time! Asked him so many times if he had a gf and to just please give me closure...answer was always no and kept me hopeful that he would at least be involved in our daughters life. No longer interested or hopeful to work things out of course. No way I want him in our lives. How do I get over all the anger I feel ?? Losing sleep over it at night cause I'm so angry.

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Michelle - posted on 07/16/2012

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Thanks for your advice. Yes up until I found out about this new gf 3days ago I had hoped to work things out but not now. We were together a year and I put a lot of energy into helping him get his life together and now he has this little of respect for me and our baby...thats why I'm more angry than anything. I feel betrayed completely. He was a loser anyways thats why we ended up breaking up. Doesnt have a real job dl doesnt pay child support for previous child or have his own house. Is actually back in the same situation almost he was before I fell for his deadbeat a**. No way I want him back honestly doesnt even have a phone anymore so wont be contacting him and he doesnt call me...

Maretta - posted on 07/16/2012

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i think the fact that you are sooo angry and loosing soo much sleep is because yo still care and maybe are actually still in love with the guy...I feel that you should channel and focus that energy on your future daughter and the things in life that makes you happy. As a single parent at 23 i know that it can be scary and hard and VER lonely to bring a child in this world without help to raise it...If he is anything like my child father that in/out thig will continue but it is up to you to stick by your words and mean what you say just work on positive communication, because you do want him to be present in your daughters life if possible and h is willing because at the end of the day it is not about personal feeling but what is best for the child....

All things heal with time so for now..... before the sleepless nights be a little selfish and indulge in the things that you like and make you happy


best of luck

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