Another ranting...

Stephanie - posted on 08/17/2009 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Dear ex husband,



The best thing I did for myself and my children was leave you. The worst thing I did was not go for your guts and fight to the death for sole custody! I hate having to suffer your obnoxious pride! It's not fair that your house is the "fun" house, the party house where naps and bed times don't exsist, where candy is ok and meals are not structured. I hate being the bad guy and you making me look like the bad parent! Everytime I have to speak with you I walk away wanting to scream until I pass out! Everytime I have to drop those beautiful girls off at your house I want to drink like an alcoholic! You make me insane! I hate that you blame me for our marriage failing, and that one day when they can understand you are going to tell the kids that. You make me want to move away, take them far away from you. I feel like you don't even care about them, you just want the trophy they represent. Well guess what? they are only good trophies because of what I have been teaching them!! You are not supporting them, you are not helping them. You do not deserve them! It's not fair that you resent my new spouse because he is helping us, he is a good father figure!!!!! I wish you would go away! I wish I could change their name to mine! I wish you would do what I feel you want to do and move away. I don't need you, I don't want you, and when you are READY to be a real father, they will be waiting.

AND, as much as I LIKE your new girlfriend, I do think she is ok! I don't mind you around ym kids, BUT everyday when i go on face book, I consider telling her EVERYTHING! I think about writing her a message simply saying "When you're ready, i will tell you"

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Amber - posted on 08/17/2009

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That totally sucks. Well good luck kicking the waffle where it counts. At least you have your husband now. Congrats on a winner

Amber - posted on 08/17/2009

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it may just take that. He will pay in the end. The only good thing is child support right

Amber - posted on 08/17/2009

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You are funny. I am going to have to remember that. Next time hit him with a waffle iron. maybe he will listen

Stephanie - posted on 08/17/2009

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Thanks. I wish it was that easy to talk to him. I mean, I do say this stuff, but it's like talking to a waffle...

Amber - posted on 08/17/2009

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You go girl. I have to say you have no problem speaking your mind to your exhusband. I think that any man that can't take care of his responsibilities should give up his rights and let someone else do it for him. Your kids will thank you in the long run for being the strict one and looking out for their best interest. You keep doing what you are doing.

Sara - posted on 08/17/2009

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Sending support and warm wishes! I bet this made you feel a little lighter!

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