Any one out there thats have Kids in Foster Care how do u deal with it

Anita - posted on 06/30/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )




I have 4 kids and 2 are in Foster Care i would like to know if any one had had to deal with this problem and how did u im finding it hard


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Melissa - posted on 06/30/2009




may i ask why? big deal if you don't wanna tell, it's not my business anyways

Kozi - posted on 06/30/2009




Well, i was in foster care too, as hard as it is for you its twice as hard for your baby!! just do what they ask and always remember you will get through it! you need to surround yourself with nothing but positive people and ignore the negitave ones, they will only make it harder for you. keep your nose clean and kiss as much butt as possible. Do not Do not be near negitave ones, my mother was and she lost all nine of her kids for 18 years. It is hard work, and those people will be in your business for a long time after. They think its their god given right after they are in it for the first time. So just keep positive and you will make it no matter what!!!!!!

Chloe - posted on 06/30/2009




i have two children with a third on the way my eldest was in care for 18 months n i got to see her regularly i have had her back since christmas last year i found it hard at first cause everyone was torn between parents n case workers but at the end of the day i had to do wat i needed to to get my eldest back n i jumped through the hoops n yes it was hard but i did it i am still jumping through welfares hoops to keep my girls n their are plenty of ppl trying to stuff it up for me but i do wat i have to do to keep the kids n in the long run it does ease off i just have to make sure ur have friends n family to be there

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