Babys father cheating on me while im 5mo pregnant

Jenifer - posted on 02/20/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I recently found out my boyfriend has been seeing other women behind my back, while im pregnant with our daughter. Needless to say I have left him. He has a pattern of cheating on women in the past and he's verbally aggressive. He has never had a problem with using his brute force against me, (not physical abuse but prevents me from leaving rooms or apt) So I left for that reason. I find out after moving out and trying to rekindle the possibility of us getting back together that he is seeing a girl named "MANDY". I personally found the proof. I am freaking crushed. Do I let him in my daughters life? Do I...what do I do so many questions. Needing advice before I loose my mind. Never thought I'd be a single mom.

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Rebel - posted on 05/28/2014

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My bastard of an ex hubby is gone as far as im concerned but I have to give credit where its due he is agood dad if ur man is good with his daughter you carnt stop contact between them as he will say your using her as a weapon

Rebel - posted on 05/28/2014

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I married a man that every other woman in my area wanted and when he proposed to me I couldnt believe it I fancied the pants of him and him me we had rampant wild sex all the time and after are wedding I became pregnant women on the estate would flirt infront of me and I became insecure they didnt give a shit that he was married to me and one of the local slags who he was banging before me got her hooks into him at 5 mnths pregnant I was devo she was a size zero bleach blonde flat chested bike I thought men cheated because they didnt get sex at ome bt that ad never been a problem in are bed it made me quite ill as I had no reason he begged me for forgivness and over n over I forgave in total he sleppef with atleast 10 women all of which were ugly slaggy tramps this affected my confidence as I thought I must be a dog too I left the bastard gt half his 500 grand house and drive a brand new audi r8 my he pays me extortionate maintainance and begs me daily to take him back I asked why go for sex with other people when we had a good sex life and he said he couldnt say no back then as he was immature he also told me thst every guy he knew fancied the arse of me and he felt like he had the world in his hand everyone told him a woman like me was punching above is weight and that he was a lucky guy to have such a woman so it gave him a big head and he thought hed treat me like a div but whos the div now a message to my ex go fuck ur skets all u want now ur single as uve lost the best thing your ever had and stop begging me to take u back id rather have sex on a bed of razors blades than trust u to be faithful

Jodi - posted on 02/20/2014

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It's not up to you whether you "let" him in your daughter's life. She is not your possession. You are both her parents. If he wants to be in her life he has that right. If you decide to prevent him from being in her life, and he takes you to court for visitation, you could potentially lose custody if you prevent a relationship. Google parental alienation.

His aggressiveness was toward you, not the child, so it won't count as being a danger to his child.

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