Boyfriend problems.

Ashley - posted on 02/16/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )




I think my boyfriend is a pathological liar. We are moved out of my mums house in November and moved into my dads house, because he is a truck driver and is only ever home 1 weekend every month, so we basically live on our own.
And now that we live on our own, i have been noticing he has been lying to me. He comes home from work and tells me stories of what he had done that day, but when i talk to a few people that he works with the have no idea what I'm talking about.

I am friends with a lot of his co-workers, a few weeks ago one of them was telling me about something he'd told them. He had told them my father had 2 house and we were renting one off him. Which is a complete lie.
He told one of his friends that we had a heap of old pinball machines in the shed, and when they wanted to come over to look, he said to me quick, we need to go out, a mates coming over and i don't want him too. I only found out that he'd told his friend about the 'imaginary' pinball machines because he had been texting his mate using my phone.
He's dug himself a huge hole at work, because he's been telling so many lies to his co-workers and boss.

He wants us to pack up and move to another state. I honestly don't want to move, my family and friends are all here, and i don't think i could cope living so far away from them. Our 2 and a half year old daughter absolutely loves her Grandma, and i don't think she would like not being able to see her all the time.
My family had noticed his lies long before i did, but didn't say anything to me because i loved him. But now that I've talked to them about it they thought it would be the right time to tell me.

I love him, but i don't think i'm IN love with him anymore. If that makes sense?
I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore, and i don't think i trust him.

I don't know what to do, should i leave him? I'm just not happy anymore.

Sorry if this was a little long.


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Cleaver - posted on 02/16/2013




i have a cousin like this, people do this because they feel insecure and want something to talk about, obviously has gotten out of hand. my sisters boyfriend talks about stuff that i obviously know more then him and i can tell hes lying he just wants someone to talk to.
i go through feeling like that towards my boyfriend off and on if hes the father of your daughter i would wait see if it goes away if he isnt i would leave. but this is just me

hope this helps

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