Can anyone help me?

Taylor Jo - posted on 11/21/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




I am 30 weeks pregnant and I have like no control over my anger so almost everything ticks me off and I have no idea what to do about it. I also never took a class for any of the labor things so I have no idea what to expect or how to handle it. I'm super paranoid about having my baby early so I am even getting some preemie clothes just in case. I also am very down on myself about the weight I've gained and I know it's all because I am pregnant but I don't know what to do to make me feel better about myself.


Christina - posted on 11/22/2012




woah woah woah honey......relax. Did you know the baby picks up on every single emotion and feeling that you go through. And this is not good. You need to calm down, you need to make yourself calm. When you get angry, tell yourself I dont want my baby to feel my anger and these things effect the baby. Will make your baby restless and irritable in your stomach. Which in turn will make you feel even worse.

You must relax my friend. YOU MUST!!! Or else you will put the baby under stress and you will have a prem baby. You want your baby to be full term dont you and healthy. Dont let the world effect you and your baby, Enjoy the pregnancy Taylor. Its such a wonderful expereince. Its so beautiful watching and feeling this little person WHO WILL BE SO BEAUTIFUL when he/she comes out and looks into your eyes for the first time. You will be helping a little person grow. From a little bean to a human with a heart beat and a brain and bones and you need to be calm, collected and focused on yourself and the baby. Stop worrying about these things making you andgry, its your emotions, you control your emotions, they DONT control you.

The weight will come off with breastfeeding. It did with me, and if you take care of yourself now and after the pregnancy by eating right, that weight will drop off quickly, dont be hard on yourself. You just had a human being growing inside of you which you had sustain. Its not like you are now cursed with this baby fat forever and you will never loose it cause you are a mom.

People say i look better now than i did before i was even pregnant. Cause the baby keeps you active, especially when they start to crawl. You will loose it. Just enjoy the pregnancy enjoy the baby, take care of yourself cause then you taking care of your little one as well and then the less problems you will have after birth. Just RELAX , eat right and enjoy it. Its a miracle.

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