can i handle number 2?

Lacey - posted on 09/28/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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Im 20 and have a 5 1/2 month old and already take care of her myself cuz my fiance/baby daddy doesn't help. Now im accidentally pregnant again and am worried bout being able 2 handle 2 kids close 2 gether by myself. He works 7-6 5 days a week and 8-3 one day a week so im home alone all day. I dnt support abortion and cnt think bout adoption. I wnt my baby. Its my responsibility im just worried bout getting overwhelmed. R there tips 2 help?

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Megan - posted on 09/28/2012

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Oh yeah, If you find a routine it makes it much easier. Right now everything runs smooth with the routine i have and it works.

Megan - posted on 09/28/2012

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I am 25 and have a 2 year old girl and a 9 month old boy and expecting my 3rd child. My husband and i dont get along most of the time because he doesn't want to do anything but moan and complain and do what he wants. Yes, at time it's overwhelming and stressfull. But i wouldn't ever trade my little ones for all the money in the world. You can handle anything you put your mind to. If you want it then take it! Only you have the answers to your own happiness and life story. Best of luck and i pray for you to find what makes you happy!

Melissa - posted on 09/28/2012

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Babe you can handle anything you want to. Yes you are going to be stressed most days and cry others but when they hug your neck and say i love you mommy it makes it worth every tear sleepless night migraines and every mess on the floors. I'm not even 30 yet and have 4 kids all girls. 10 8 6 5 most days i dont want to get out of bed but i know their daddy isnt going to feed them any thing but snake cakes or cook to much for them so like a good (not perfect) mom i do it and at the end of my day I'm ready for bed but the kisses at night and the I love you is worth all the ups and downs and side ways. I use to fight with hubby alot bout helping me and he would for a few days but i realized he wasnt going to help much so way get stressed over it just do it my self and its hard true but least i can say ive done my part hope this helps for you hun.

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