changed mind about having a baby after miscarrage

Michelle - posted on 08/06/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Hi ladies, a few months ago me and my husband were trying hard to have are second child, I got pregnant and not 2months later had a miscarrage. At first I was for trying again right away, but since gone back on birth control and now wants to wait indefinatly. I feel like it was a sign that we are not ready for another one, we are in the process of finding out if are son has a disabilty and wating to spend as much time helping him however he needs it. So what I'm asking is, is it normal and have any of you felt like this.

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It is very normal. After my first miscarriage I thought I was all ready after only a month, but I still found myself crying and having a hard time around children. In the end I got pregnant 5 months after my miscarriage. It felt like the second I was healed enough to deal with another pregnancy, I got pregnant.

Taking your time isn't a bad thing. Each person needs a different amount of time.

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