Climaxing during sex

Angela - posted on 08/06/2009 ( 6 moms have responded )

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I am 28 and my daughter is almost 12 months old and I've yet to have sex till just a few weeks ago, so far twice. It's been having AMAZING sex with a partner that I am totally attracted to. We do all the things the books and websites tell you (lube, foreplay, etc.). It feels great and I'm totally enjoying myself, however I'm not climaxing like I used to. Is this normal? Anyone else having or had that issue? I'm also a breast feeding mother still, but I'm not full or anything during sex.

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Mel - posted on 08/08/2009

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Kylie's idea is excellent im almost never satisfied with one orgasm after sex i always do it again heaps lol. hope it all works out and you have some better fun in the future. sometimes it does feel amazing even when you dont climax though. i see our reply with quote option is back very glad about that

Angela - posted on 08/07/2009

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Quoting Kylie:

So did you mean you waited almost 12 months after your daughter was born to start having sex again? Your probably both a little out of practice and you know what they say practice makes perfect :) I breastfeed and haven't really noticed any difference in the intensity of my orgasms. Without getting too detailed perhaps try and let that feeling build up then hold off and let it build up n hold off etc or i find if i am not satisfied after the first i can give myself 30seconds to a1 min of no stimulation then i can go again. Every woman's different but those are just some ideas to try. Have fun:)


Thank you. That's an excellent suggestion! Yes, I have waited 12 months before having sex again. I'm a single mother, so going out and finding someone I feel comfortable with is not a luxury. But yes, I think I am very much out of practice. Plus it doesn't help that i have a very low body image :-{ But hopefully soon i'll feel better about my body again. Thank you for your input. 

Kylie - posted on 08/07/2009

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So did you mean you waited almost 12 months after your daughter was born to start having sex again? Your probably both a little out of practice and you know what they say practice makes perfect :) I breastfeed and haven't really noticed any difference in the intensity of my orgasms. Without getting too detailed perhaps try and let that feeling build up then hold off and let it build up n hold off etc or i find if i am not satisfied after the first i can give myself 30seconds to a1 min of no stimulation then i can go again. Every woman's different but those are just some ideas to try. Have fun:)

Gemma - posted on 08/07/2009

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yes my doctor told me that when you are breast feeding it isn't as good and harder to get aroused. this may have something to do with not climaxing too. I think because when breast feeding you have alot more hormones going on! If it still continues after you stop breast feeding, talk to your doctor.....pref a female who is a mum herself! good luck!

Michelle - posted on 08/07/2009

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My orgasms were abit lame when i was breastfeeding. I dont know why, since ive stopped thought sex in general is much better. Its all to do with the hormones.

Mel - posted on 08/06/2009

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ive never climaxed from sex without during it myself at the same time and even then only happened a couple times. i cant realy answer your question just thougth id add that i think you are lucky to be able to :)

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