Confused at what to do or if I'm even right in feeling this way

Kandace - posted on 08/11/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




Been in a relationship for 7 years the last two years we have cheated and lied but we both decided we wanted to make things work. So we got rid of everything and worked or stayed pretty much to ourselves. Recently I talked to him about talking to one of his best friends again, this friend doesn't like me and he helped with a lot of my mans lying. Not thinking about what would be brought back up after he started talking to his friend I agreed to him talking to his friend again. Today he wanted to go hang out with him but made a big deal about having a time constraint ( because we only have one vehicle I would have to drop him off then pick him up ) which hit a nerve with me then to find out they were planing on hanging out at 10 pm so I'm furious. Is this wrong of me to not want to be with him if this is how it's going to be with his friend?? Not to mention we have a three yr old and another on the way. Help !!


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If y'all have worked through the cheating thing completely, I'd say give it another try. But if the friend keeps bringing up the past and causing your boyfriend to fight with you then I'd say call it quits. You have 2 kids to think about as well as yourself. It is not good for your toddler or you or the baby to fight. I remember that I was crazy moody when I was pregnant so just address the problem and discuss whats best for your kids and yourself as adults. Hope this helps

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