Divorce

Kirsty - posted on 05/05/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Recently separated for my childrens dad but he seems to want to see the children but not want to keep up with his responsibilities everything is on his terms no longer pays maintenance and has introduced his new girlfriend to our kids my daughter has a mild form of autism so didn't take this well my head tells me to limit his time with them but my heart is torn as they miss him as I am a full time working mum things are tuff so any words of wisdom would be appreciated for a very confused tired mum x

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Kirsty - posted on 05/06/2014

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Thank you i have a meeting today feeling really nervous cant stand that it has come to this

Michelle - posted on 05/06/2014

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You need to get everything (visitation, child support) in writing. If that means going to court then go. You may be able to sort it out in mediation as well.
You don't have any right to limit his time with the children, just like he doesn't have any right to dictate all the terms.
Maybe you can get written into the paperwork something about introducing new partners. It would probably be a good idea to see a lawyer and get some advice as well.

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