Does anyone get a bit Jealous of other pregnant woman and already have a baby???? You wanna be preg!

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Veronique - posted on 05/07/2010

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I did when my first daughter was just born i missed being pregnant so much and all the attention i would get. So when she was 8 months i got pregnant again. Now my second is 6 months and yeah i look at women with a little of envy. I want another baby but not right now. I wouldn't say i'm jealous i just like the way a women looks when she's carring a child and the feeling of having a baby kick inside you.

Sarah - posted on 09/09/2010

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yeh my younger sister is pregnant and i told her that i'm jealous because i want #2

Alicia - posted on 09/09/2010

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i get jealous! ive lost one so that adds to the feeling. I really want another. but im gonna wait until the time is right.

Sarah - posted on 05/14/2010

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i got jealous! although i am pregnant with my 1st i was very jealous everytime i heard about one of my friends having a baby! most of them were not planned and didn't want kids at that time and here i was desperate to have a baby with my husband! i started doing daycare so that when i had a baby i could stay at home and work at the same time! after interviewing with people and seeing people that were pregnant and not taking care of themselves it made me sick! some people would come to me asking about daycare and would tell me they were on drugs during their entire pregnancy! i would find myself getting mad and jealous and crying myself to sleep because all these people were pregnant and didn't want to be and weren't taking care of themselves or their babies! but now that i am pregnant its doesn't bother me to see others pregnant! but i still don't get how someone could be doing something as harmful as drugs while being pregnant!

Tammy - posted on 05/14/2010

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I wouldnt say I was jealous but I definetly looking forward to having another baby. I absolutely loved being pregnant. My husband and I are going to start trying again when our son is one year old, he's currently 10mo so we dont have long to go!

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Jennifer - posted on 12/03/2013

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Yes! I can't get pregnant. I Hate not finding the write man to get married to and won't have kids with me. :( It was so hard and won't marry my fat ass. I have fish for kids and ok with that....

User - posted on 07/29/2013

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YES!! My now ex-husband gave me no choice ten years ago to get "fixed" or he was leaving while I was expecting our 3rd. At the time I was 21 and just knew I needed to keep my husband happy. Now at 31 everyone my age is starting their families and having beautiful babies. I wouldn't trade my three kiddos for ANYTHING but I wish I had been stronger then and maybe I wouldn't be so sad now when a friend gets pregnant or has a new baby. It really tears at my heart constantly, and after ten years this crazy emotional pull hasn't eased up at all. My husband and I have 5 kids (combined) between 17 and 10 which a true blessing, but I feel like I was cheated out of my destiny to have more children of my own. I feel selfish for even feeling this way but it hurts so badly sometimes.

Brittany - posted on 09/09/2010

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oo yea it started about 7 weeks after i had my son...he is gonna be 8mths on the 16th and we have been trying for baby #2 for about 3mths....I love being prego and cant wait to have a baby bump again!!!

Heather - posted on 05/14/2010

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Super Jelouse! I want things more stable before I bring another baby into the world so I know my son will be atleast 3 if not older (He's 13 months now) I love shopping at Babies R Us but get super jelouse seeing all the pregnant beliies and all the tiny baby stuff we rarely used because he came out just shy of 9 lbs!

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I do be happy or others but i miss that cloud nine feeling for the weeks after you find out your pregnant and the excirtment and all the wonderful feelings that go along with it while being pregnant.I miss that but its wonderful to know thats just how they must be feeling now,and thats nice.:-)When your broody its a like i want that but now the broody feeling isnt here after i had my second little girl whos 16mths i dont feel that way...So i am very happy for others now without in the back of mind wishing man i wish that was me lol.

Jodie - posted on 05/14/2010

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wow!!! i thought i was the only 1 i have 3 kids my youngest is 10 month and ive been broody for at least the last 3 months x

Angelica - posted on 05/13/2010

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I'm the same way! I loved being pregnant! W/ my first I had morning sickness the first 3 months and w/ my second the whole time but besides that I loved it! I loved feeling the baby move, hearing its heartbeat at appts., and watching my belly grow!

Christine - posted on 05/13/2010

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all the time.weve been trying for 5months still nothing and everyone seems to be getting pregnant.we have a 3yr old and want to have another soon

Lynne - posted on 05/07/2010

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I so do!!!! I tied my tubes after my son 6 almost 7 years ago. I was so sick with him and I have know idea what I was thinking. I am so kicking myself. Everyone around me is prego and I am so sad.

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i hated being pregnant, but now miss it! my husband and i have a 5 1/2 month old and are already wanting baby number 2. a friend of mine has a 7 month old and is 7 wks pregnant,.....jealous.

Rhiannon - posted on 05/07/2010

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I don't. I get excited and love to talk about pregnancy and babies with them, but don't envy the pregnancy. I get sad to think that we are done with babies and I will never have the newborn again. But I don't really want any more. Pregnancy is difficult for me and we are looking forward to being past the baby stage. Mind you it goes quickly!

Emma - posted on 05/07/2010

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I do, I already have 3 and had a very bad delivery last time but i still find myself looking at women's bumps with jealousy. My partner does want another and i do in but i'm terrified of labour now. I nearly lost my 3rd.

Leanna - posted on 05/06/2010

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i do and that started when my daughter was about 3 months old, i reallllly wanted to have another baby and i still do! but we cant afford it right now so we are waiting but its driving me crazy my daughter turns 2 in 4 days and i feel like im ready for another baby, heck i loved being pregnant, we just cant afford it though but just know you are not the only one!

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Only because in order to have a baby I need to suffer through pregnancy first! Honestly - I hated the experience but I love being a Mum so its a means to an end. Having said that - it appears that alot of women have a much nicer experience with pregnancy than I did so I could understand why they would miss it.

Sarah - posted on 05/04/2010

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me and my fiancee were trying for well over a year before we concieved our second kid. im due next month and the whole time i was trying to concieve without luck my friends were concieving all around me, ones that didnt want kids, ones i knew that had like 5 or 6 kids already and all this stuff, and they were rubbiong it into me and that hurt and i was really jealous. but now im almost done wiht my pregnancy and cant wait to be able to see my feet again lol

Layla - posted on 05/04/2010

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i have an 8 month old and my husband wants to have another baby and althogh i keed saying lets wait untill shes nearly 2 i cant help but be so jealous of all my friends that are pregnant do you think this means im ready now?

Hidayah - posted on 05/04/2010

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I do! I eye other women's pregnant bellies with envy! And my son's just 10mths old. Lol!

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