Don't know if I am doing anything right anymore

Phoenix - posted on 12/01/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Everything has seemed to go downhill lately. I don't know if I am makin the right decisions anymore or if anything is going to turn out right. The worst of it has come in the past fortnight. I took dd to get her tongue tie cut which seemed simple enough but since havin it done she has nearly screamed constantly I have had her checked and they say everything is fine but y happy baby has not been the same since and it is stressing me out to the max and it is know effecting my whole life it is making me question myself as a parent I do t feel like I can control anything anymore Abd it is stressing me out to the max I rang my partner today as he was out as he is most of the time and told him I don't know what to do to help her an I need his help as dd had been screaming and crying since 9am and it was now 3 pm but instead of him coming to help me he rang one of his friends parents and told them I can't cope anymore and could they come help me and I now I feel horrible as I feel like no one thinks that I can look after my own children I am at a loss I ant stop thinking I have failed this is y 4th child an I have never felt like this before I don't know what to do I am in need or any advice or even just another mother to talk to as I don't have any family near me at all

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Phoenix - posted on 12/03/2013

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It was optional the have the tongue tie cut but seen she was unable to feed propally ( she couldn't latch on really and most of the milk come out the side of her mouth) and I was told that she would not be able to speak propaly I decided that it had to be done but I will give the massage a try I didn't actually think of it

Szilvia - posted on 12/03/2013

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Did the procedure need to be done? I don't know much about it but I do know that it can be really hard for a parent when their child is constantly crying or yelling. I would be extra affectionate to the little one. Give her extra cuddles, love, kisses and most importantly PATIENCE. Cuddling and holding her will also make you feel better :) Massages might make her feel better too.

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