Dreams of cheating spouse while pregnant?

Brook - posted on 06/10/2011 ( 11 moms have responded )




I am pregnant with my second child, 14 weeks. I have a 18 month old son who has a different father than this baby. I have been having really weird and scary dreams this pregnancy, I had a dream that I was beating my sons father (my ex) up with a bat, that I had this baby and my husband said it was ugly and he would never claim it, that I am breastfeeding my 18 month old son (who was never breastfed) during this pregnancy, and dreams that my husband is cheating. Has anyone else had these dreams, and/or know what they might mean?


Tara - posted on 06/12/2011




Gotta love those crazy pregnancy dreams...especially the ones that make absolutely no sense at all! This is my 3rd pregnancy and I can't tell you how many times I have woken up in the morning, just shaking and upset, because of some stupid dream (usually about my hubby cheating or something..). Mine tend to be so vivid that the rest of my day is pretty much ruined.

But they are completely normal...just completely irritating.

Alex - posted on 06/12/2011




lol gosh i remember dreaming bout my bf cheating well i was pregnant and one very vivid dream bout it being my sister that had a baby not me but she wasn't looking after the bbay properly and i was chasing her around the house pleading for her to stop dropping the baby etc was awful and i had them alot especially in the 2nd trimester I know it makes you feel terrible but it is TOTALLY 100% normal and hopefully will pass soon it usually accusers during a hormone surge

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AMANDA - posted on 05/08/2012




they are completely normal.. when i was pregnant with my twins (they turn one in a few days) i had those dreams all the time.. it didnt help either that i couldnt sleep if my hubby was in our bed due to his snoring plus i was enormus especially towards the end so it too a lot to get comfy but anywho.. yes its normal to have those kind of dreams.. your hormones are all over the place right now and that effects everything.. i had vivid and i mean VIVID dreams about all kinds of stuff from him cheating to sex dreams to dreams about the birth and to what my babies would look like..

just try to ignore them as much as possible =)

Barbara - posted on 05/08/2012




I ALWAYS have dreams about my husband cheating on me! I know that he has no drive to cheat on me and am not concerned about it, but have them regardless. I've even woke up and punched my husband in the side because of a dream. lol I wouldn't put to much thought into any of them. I'm also 14 weeks with a 19 month old, and I'm sure it's probably a combination of crazy hormones and a little stress!

Samantha - posted on 01/01/2012




Oh WOW........ I feel some what better after readding these post's. Ive been having horrible dreams of my BF and his EX cheating on me :( and its has been affecting my real life.. hopefully this eases my mind a little.

Stifler's - posted on 06/12/2011




I had them and it carried into my real life I thought my husband was cheating and any time he was like 2 minutes late I'd accuse him of cheating and it was just ridiculous.

Shannon - posted on 06/12/2011




i had a few scary dreams and a lot of dreams where i was doing completely unsafe things for a prego lady. i would run around every where and jump off hella high objects and stuff i also dreamt of hiding and smoking cigarettes. in the dreams i knew i was pregnant too. its weird but normal so don't worry.

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Sounds common. The thing of dreaming about your husband leaving...is that what happened with your first childs dad? You might just being worrying about it and its coming out in your dreams. But remember they ar eonly dreams! I used to dream that i was the one cheating, and my husband knew and didnt care...I wouldnt cheat on him if my life depended on it. It will end soon when the sleepless nights start lol Good luck!

September - posted on 06/10/2011




I had some crazy dreams while I was preagnant. I think it's pretty common. I mostly had nightmares.

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