Fathers of your children...

Maria - posted on 03/26/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I would just honestly like your opionions and that's it dnt wana read no bullshit..bascially I have a 2 year old going to be 3 this year november and when I got pregnant it wasn't planned but she is a true blessing from god I didn't really know her dad at the time as we just started seing eachother not sex just going out what not.. When she was born my patner her dad was a very good dad stepped up to the mark done his job ever since then I've had some doubts.. I spoke to him the other day and mentioned about having another child he said he wants to have another child when he has more money OK that's cool.. Wants to save from his job No problem but the question I want an answer to is why does he sleep with me with no protection as we have Never used protection as previously I was on the depo when my child was born and came of ov it last year due to really bad side effects and has told him I've come of the injection straight he was ok with it but the main question is he says he doesn't want another child but he doesn't want to use protection... I had a pregnancy scare not to long ago and he gave me this look (sad look) and I said what's the matter and he said ow its because you've gotter go to hospital demanding I just needed his loving and convinced me to stay at home with him?? Wdf I'm confused

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Deana - posted on 03/29/2013

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Give him a ultimatum either marry you, use protection or leave you alone if he don't want any other kids. Are u sure he just with you? Find out facts about him. Also try birth control. I take the nueva ring and it works

Rufina Marie P Dela - posted on 03/26/2013

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You should tell him how you feel as far as protection wise if he doesn't want to use protection maybe birth control would be a better option for the circumstances it is a win win situation because some guys just don't like the feeling of a condom while having sexual intercourse some just like the feeling without protection for better sensation of sex it feels real that way he gets the pleasure more than the rubber though condom is still safe it is not always a guarantee of pregnancy prevention because some might have holes without the partners not knowing but if you are considering birth control just take into consideration as well that it does have side effects so I would talk to your doctor first before taking it and get the UDI called mirena it is Good for up to 5 years hope this help you Good Luck and GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY :)

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