full custody?

Star - posted on 07/17/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I have been with my fiance for 5 years now, since this time he has been trying to get full custody of his son because his baby momma took him to court for full custody.
during these 5 years, we have been going through alot, they were given joint custody, her current fiance has assaulted me and the police charged him, then they both went and put charges on me in spite of what he did to me. cas got involved and said that the child is at risk of physical harm and closed the file. the baby momma has tried to state that we are bad people, that my family threatens her and her boyfriend, but its the other way around. Her boyfriend has threatened the child and lies to him. The boyfriend has threatened us also. Police have got involved several times, she has tried everything. Now she moved about an hour away and wants to put the child in school near her, and wants daycare or baby sitter. But wont let the child be with his father instead. She has stated to us 2 years ago that her job is more important then the child and is having trouble taking care of him. in the past she has called and told my fiance he needs to take the child because she has to work in the morning, she has also called because the child wishes to go to his father. She lies in court but we cant prove it. I have 3 children with my fiance and she doesnt want her son with them just my fiance on weekends. what can we say to the judge to get the judge to give full custody to my fiance.

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Star - posted on 07/17/2011

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We have been told by the child that his mother's boyfriend has been physically and verbally abusing him, he throws him on his bed when he is sent to his room, he threw something at the child while he was going up to his room. the mother is being smacked by him aswell. but we can only take the child's word for it.

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