going out and not having fun !?

Amy - posted on 04/19/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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So every single time i try to go out or i get the chance to do so my mom rings me every freaken minute! Its so anoying like i hardly go out bcuz of that . She trys to make me feel guilty by saying you wanted a child you have to be home all day with her your live doesnt matter no more wth is that true cuz im starting to believe so. I havent been out since last month cause the last i went out she was all concerned if i had sex and what not . (Personal info )... idk whats her problem she also has a 6month old and tells me that she has no life thats shes only has time for him ..so im quessin that might be another problem . And i dont go out like crazy i got out twice or once a month and i cant enjoy that

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Amy - posted on 04/21/2014

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Yes I always tell HER to go out when she's under stress and She doesn't want to

Amy - posted on 04/20/2014

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Yes i know and i feel guilty for wanting to go out but i just get so stressed out . I take my bbygirl to daycare so she really doesnt really deal with her :/ i know its not her obligation to watch her but it would be nice since i dont have anyone ealse to watch her at night . For that reason i just havent gone out i dont wanna bother or have my daughter annoy her . And her father is not a part of our lives so I have all the responsibility. @ marlyn21 I also miss my daughter to its so weird I think about her the whole night wen Im out. I'm 21 n I support myself she never takes care of my daughter all day n I wouldn't ask her to do I understand she has a baby n she's tired but once a month wouldn't kill her

Marlyn21 - posted on 04/19/2014

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Well I really think that once u have a child It is YOUR responsibility to take carebof he or she . Even if ur young and single .. im 21 I have 2 yr old and pregnant about 8 weeks ive always been responsible..I never go outand if i do its once in a while with my hubby and we regret not bringing him along lol ...but honestly I rather go to the movies to watch a kids movie or chuck e cheese ect than go out wit out him! Plus my moms always tells me to take him over for couple of days and I say mmhm no lol...I think ur mom is just tired of her own and taking care of another double the work ...

A - posted on 04/19/2014

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Does your mom watch your child all the time? Like do you work during the day and have her sit for you? Maybe if that is the case she is tired. If she has her own baby and she is watching yours too. How old are you if I can ask? How old is the child? Yes your life does change when you have a child. I haven't been out in months and nor do I plan on it because of my son. Is the father involved?

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