Has anyones man lost their sex drive?

Justina - posted on 11/23/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Before and now worsened since i've had my son. My man doesn't have a sex drive. I have tried everything fromlighting candles to hinting about massages leading to happy endings. LOL I feel like hes just not that attracted to me anymore. Its really starting to bother me. If you have any input that would be great.

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Nachole - posted on 12/01/2009

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I am 8 mos preg with my 3rd child our 2nd together and my last preg we had sex the whole time.but this time he is uninterestd in sex with me period.he says that it is because of my pain issues ,but i am able medically to have sex .I get tired of feeling un attractive.My 2nd trimester was the worst cz I wanted it all the time . He barely even touches me.A peck here and there or a hug .I wish I could help but i am right there with ya.All you can do is tell him how you feel and like stacy said try something more provocative.Wake him up with oral or sneak into the shower.Sometimes once you get them started they cant stop.

Stacy - posted on 12/01/2009

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I am a little over 6 1/2 months pregnant now and my Man wanted it a lot when I first got pregnant, but now that I get tired easier and all the muscle craps..he says that it is boring???.. so he has kind of lost his sex drive little by little. He says it will be better after our son is born, but I believe it will take a while after the birth for me to be able to enjoy it again. Hopefully it won't be so boring with him after our son is born and I recover, but I wish I had some words of advice for you. Maybe try something a little more provocative (if he is into that).

Michelle - posted on 11/25/2009

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Quoting Justina:

Has anyones man lost their sex drive?

Before and now worsened since i've had my son. My man doesn't have a sex drive. I have tried everything fromlighting candles to hinting about massages leading to happy endings. LOL I feel like hes just not that attracted to me anymore. Its really starting to bother me. If you have any input that would be great.



was he at the birth?  im sure that can be quite traumatic to watch someone you love go through so much pain

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I am having the same problem, however I was not the one who gave birth to our daughter... she is my stepdaughter. I know there is a lot of other things going on in our lives and especially his, but I feel like he doesn't find me sexually attractive anymore either, and I have talked to him about it, and the only thing he said was that he just doesn't want to have sex that much anymore. It really hurts because I love him with all my heart and I want to make love to him, but he just isn't into it. We sometimes get into fights about it because I will try something and he will tell me no and then I get all upset about it. Idk... It sucks... I would like some advice too... I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone...

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