Hello moms. It's Lillian Lewis so I'm thinking of going back to shcool it's gust so hard I gust ternd 31 and I have 8 kids and my husband still wants more OMG he thinks that I should gust be a stay at home mom he don't want me to go back to shcool or work I gust fell like I need to get out time to myself time away from all my house duties I wold rilly like some feed back from outher moms thank u

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Lillian - posted on 07/09/2013

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Hello yes I know it's important I gust feel like I need to get out more and do something and outher times I feel like I was gust ment to be a mom and yes men ar gust like that sometimes well thank u a lot for ur Meg Thank you :) :)

MissMommyMay - posted on 07/08/2013

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Going to school, being able to get a good job and learn about life is empowering. Sometimes men dont want their wives to be empowered because they want to be the "Man" of the house and the family. They want to be able to have control over "their" wives. You are your own person, who deserves to be in charge of your life and make your own decisions.

Good Luck!

Lillian - posted on 07/08/2013

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Hello we'll I've been a full time stay at home mom from the first day I had my first baby my chillderen have never left my side well I have to chews if I want more or if I want to go back to shcool it's one or thee outher thank u for responding :)

Joy - posted on 07/07/2013

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Same here. I think he is really controlling your life.
Do you have nanny for the kids? Who will take care of them if you study? Do you also like to have more kids?

Lillian - posted on 07/07/2013

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Hello thank u for texting me yes I know my husband is vary Christian and rilly believes that we need to multiply and I gust know my body can not Handel anuother pregnutice I drop out of shcool in grade 10 and my hope to to go back to shcool and become an Adicshion Countsler I can't event rilly spell it's hour able I sometimes fell like my husband is a bit controlling we have been together for 11years and married for fore I don't know but I feel like I need to make a move now with my schooling and yes I got pregnet twice on birth control and one wile on the needle the depera para era I hade to see a ginacallegust thank u for ur time :)

Michelle - posted on 07/07/2013

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How are you planning on fitting in school with 8 children?
Have either of you discussed birth control or even permanent birth control? Just because your husband wants more children doesn't mean you have to have them. YOU are the one that has to carry and give birth to them!!!
In my opinion he sounds very controlling.

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