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Jill - posted on 09/24/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My hubby and I moved 2 hours away from all of our friends and family and it has caused us to drift apart. The only time we are remotely close is when he wants to do it. And I need more than just a hug or touc or kiss. Any suggestions? I don't want to end up further apart.....

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Esmeralda - posted on 09/24/2009

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Quoting Jill:

I don't want to get further away from my hubby. The distance between us is mounting. He works insane hours and I stay at home with our son. He could spend more time with us if he chose to but he would rather work. I don't like the wham bam thank you maam type of closeness



of course you dont! youre a woman lol



i think date nights should be scheduled.once a week,or twice a month,at least once a month!(maybe on Friday or Saturday yall can go home and your family members can watch your baby and yall can go out with friends and have a good time)



 



and if that cant happen,after you put the baby down for the night do a movie night at home! ;)



maybe a margarita and beer night,with some mexican appetizers or something!

Jill - posted on 09/24/2009

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I don't want to get further away from my hubby. The distance between us is mounting. He works insane hours and I stay at home with our son. He could spend more time with us if he chose to but he would rather work. I don't like the wham bam thank you maam type of closeness

Ruth - posted on 09/24/2009

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Do you man further apart from your hubby or your friends and family?

I am going through the same thing with my partner that we are only close when he wants to be, but for a pregnant woman thats really difficult to cope with.

Clare - posted on 09/24/2009

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try arranging just for u 2 to go out and get sum proper alone time and y not once a week go and c ur friends and family

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