Help me!

Nicole - posted on 09/26/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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So I'm 21 & just recently found out that I'm pregnant. I have the most wonderful, loving boyfriend.. He is so excited. Problem is.. He has an ex-wife and 3 other children that live far from us. We're in Colorado, they're in Arizona. Anyway.. I'm super excited for my first baby, I know he is too but I just feel kind of guilty because he can't see his kids and I kind of feel like having a baby is just some what replacing his kids.. I just don't know how to feel and how to act.

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Enna - posted on 09/30/2013

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You're not replacing his kids you're giving him another one that he will be able to spend time with. If anything it should make him feel better that he can at least be with and take care of one of his children.

Alexandra - posted on 09/29/2013

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Its not replacing his kids. They will always be his kids its a shame that he doesn't see them I must say although looking from a more positive angle we all grow up with different life circumstances and thats what makes us all so unique. Life is too short to feel guilty especially when your pregnant. Just enjoy your experience and keep your love alive.

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