Sonya - posted on 06/04/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )




im a mother of 4 lovely children i became a mother at the age of only 16 and now just recently split from my husband of 8 years so im a single mum of 4 children and cant see how things are going to be any help please xx


Sarah - posted on 06/04/2009




Hi Sonya! Im sorry to hear that you and your husband split. That can be such a scary and devastating situation. It seems that as a mom, we try everything to keep our family together and we can sacrifice so much of ourselves for their sake. You will get through this, as so many other moms have. You have most definitely come to the right place to speak out. There are so many moms that are going through and have gone through where you are.

Just remember to take it one day at a time, one moment at a time, be strong for your children as they need you and will always need you, and take time out for yourself. You will make it!!! I promise! Keep your head up and keep moving forward!


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Jess - posted on 06/04/2009




Hi, thats really horrible... keep strong for your children... are u and ur children safe at the moment? im only just starting my family so i dont know what its like, but i do hope that u get through this.. and for a first mum at 16 u must be very strong and to have 4 children even stronger.. we all know u will get through this.. try to smile... i hope ur family are also around for you to support u and help u through this.. good luck and make the most out of what you have :-)

Natalie - posted on 06/04/2009




I am a single mother of a soon to be four year old boy! I have raised him on my own since I was 3 months pregnant! I am currently 7 months pregnant with my second child! I know it seems like it will be hard to be a single mother but as long as you have that love for your children you will get through it! I will again be a single mother! And honestly I wouldnt give it up for the world! I look at it as having less stress to deal with when these are the times that my children need me the most! Dating isnt an issue for me but I am not looking for a relationship right now! My focus is on my children and what I got to do for them and myself to make our lives better! You are never given more burdens than you can handle! I know that it is hard to adjust to being alone but trust me you will find it to be a little easier! I know that my children will always love me unconditionally and that is a love that no man can ever replace! Hang in there! You are not alone!

Sonya - posted on 06/04/2009




thanks sarah reading your reply does help as i no if i post on hear any worries i may have when i do tell my children i can get some help in the right direction thanks again x

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