hey everyone

Candice - posted on 09/14/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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ok just want to let everyone know something on here..... so that way you all are not confused.... yes my daughter is one my site as well as her fathers girlfrinds site.... but just to let you know she is my daughter...... his girlfriend says that she is her mom but thats just to piss me off so sorry for the confusion if there was any...... but jen just remember who tae calls mommy cause it so is not you..... thank you all

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ok and candy i see that now that you say it and i will change it because when i first started this it said step mom and i did not change it...i don't know how it got changed and that is the truth....and again like i said from the begining i will not ever ever take your place as mom.....but i will love her, protect her, and be there for her just as you and todd are and just like chris. I am really sorry that you though i changed it but i did not and im sorry it pissed you off you know that is not what any off us want to do we just want to see bug.

Candice - posted on 09/15/2009

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ok jen then if that is true then how come when i look at your profile for taelyne it says...."jen shuman is taelyne shumans mom" not step mom and you are not that yet.... jennifer savoy there is alot more going on with all of this than you can imagine... i am not mad at you cause u dont know everything.... and yes i do believe that step parents play a big roll in their lives..... but as i said before taelyne profile did say step mom at first and that did not bother me at all but now it says mom....

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Hi, i am Taelyne (stepmom) as it says on my profile....and thank you Jennifer Savory bc you are right and i have told everyone this from the begining that i know i am not her mother nor would i ever take candy's place but i do love her and will protect her and be here i she need me.....and i did not put her on my profile to piss anyone off...i did it bc i love her and i do treat her the same as my son. i have never sat around and said taelyne call me mommy i refer to myself as jen and everyone knows that....but like i have said from the begin and have told candy this that i do not want to replace her that is not me, and i will not treat her any diff. and it makes me mad that she goes around making me look like the bad guy all the time...but what can i do.

Jennifer - posted on 09/15/2009

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She seems to say on her profile that it is her step daughter. I know how difficult it is to be a melded family (I have step children as well. who I didn't list on my profile), but what should be important is that she loves your daughter and she treats her no differently then her own. I had a step father who went on to have two children w/ my mother and I was always treated like his step kid. Their is nothing worse. As hard as it is to have a broken family and the idea of another women playing mommy she is her step mom. It doesn't replace YOU. She will only ever have one you! You carried her in your womb and brought her into this world.Would you rather her treat your daughter differently? Differently then her own?

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