hi I'm struggling to post anythng here

Mbasa - posted on 04/28/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I'm a 26 year old n pregnant. I have a stable job n well caring family. recently dicovered tht m 9 weeks pregnant n bby daddy wants me to have an abortion coz he's getting married. He never told me he was n any relationship n I never suspected anythng. Do I get rid of this child. I stress constantly bcoz of this n m worried ts gonna affect this child. I don't knw wht to do at all. He's excuse is tht we agreed tht I would have an abortion If I get pregnant because we were both not ready for a baby. now I discovered this marriage of his and he did not deny it. I js wanna die.

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Sara - posted on 05/01/2014

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Also if you just want to talk to someone or need more support I would love to do that. I know you said you have a well caring family and that's great, just offering in case.

Sara - posted on 05/01/2014

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Aw I just want you to know that my heart feels so sad for you and your growing baby. You both deserve better than a guy like that. I recently got out of a bad relationship, when I was pregnant. My daughter is just turned 1 and a day has not gone by where I have not been thankful for her and loved her with all my heart. She made me a stronger person because I had to focus on her wellbeing first. I wish you all the best. A baby is the most precious treasure and will turn your life upside down in the best way. Don't ever doubt your ability to be a good momma- that is a choice. Hope this cheers you up- I'm telling you it is worth it.

Tanya - posted on 04/29/2014

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Follow your heart and mind.

Think it through carefully.

I don't think I would be able to take care of my daughter without my husband, but I wouldn't be able to live without her now.

I'm not for or against abortion. I'm indifferent.

Whatever you choose good luck!

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Maybe go to an infertility clinic and look to adopt out. There are many desperate couples who want to have a baby. That baby is alive, has a heartbeat, feels.

Betsy - posted on 04/28/2014

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I'm so sorry to hear that. Be strong and think carefully what you want to do because in the end it will just be you and the baby. And it's sad when the poop hits the fan that these men get scarred and go in the opposite direction and all the truth comes out. But it was all good when they got some. If I were you I would think it over very carefully. Hope you find some answers.

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