How can he just walk away and not call to check in?

Samantha - posted on 06/07/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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How is it possible that someone can swear they love their child and then just walk away from them. When my babby daddy does text he never asks about the baby. I'm so ANGRY. I love him but how can someone not care about his family and responsibilities?

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Kimberly - posted on 06/07/2013

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I know how you feel! I have 3 children. My oldest I had at 17 and didn't tell her dad till she was 9 years old that she was his. In the 3 years he has known about her he has called once but wouldn't talk to her and has wrote her 1 letter and promised to see her and talk to her and still hasn't! Yet he is married to a woman who is 20 years older than him and is raising her 4 kids like his own cuz in his words "they don't have a father and they need him" really!? My child doesn't have a father either and she's your flesh and blood and you won't be in her life but you will for your wife's kids? And he has another son by another girl that he treats the same way as my daughter! How can you raise someone else's kids but not your own? It baffles me! And my youngest 2 have a diff dad and he says he wants to be in there life but drugs and girls and prison is where his priorities are. So I fixed his butt! As if yesterday I have full legal and physical custody of my youngest 2 and he has no visitation or contact unless I say! And he has to still pay child support (which he won't! They are 7 and 8 and he's never paid!) just know that they are better off without them! If he was any kind of man he would be there for his child. It hurts because you didn't make this baby alone but your child needs you to be strong for them and put negative ppl out of there life. My children are happy that they don't have to be around him anymore and that's sad. It's sad how parents just walk away from their children. I don't know how they do it because my kids are my world! I didn't go into motherhood thinking I would be doing it alone but I have for 11 years and in my case it's been so much better and my kids will be such better ppl because of it. Know that your not alone and I'm always here if you need to talk. I've dealt with deadbeats for 11 years lol it's not easy!

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