how can i control my sons tantrums??

Mollie - posted on 09/10/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )




i have an 17month old boy who wont stop throwing tantrums half the time its literally over nothing and its getting out of control i have tried everything but nothing seems to be working i really need help


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Chloe - posted on 09/10/2009




i have the same with both my boys its so embarrassing!! i find if you just ignore them they tend to stop, ive tried the "naughty corner" and that just made jack (almost 3) worse, ive tried smacks and i just felt terrible after so i just ignore now and that is proving to be best once they know that you dont care what there doing they just stop.

Amber - posted on 09/10/2009




My 15 month old daughter has recently started with the tantrums too, I have tried spanking (just 1 quick swat) but she just screams more, and louder. So doesnt work for me, I just have to distract her, not reward her, but distract her with something she might want, or I let her whine it out (if at home). Out and about there isnt too much you can do.

Nicole - posted on 09/10/2009




I know this is sort of taboo now, but have you tried spanking him? I really think thats whats wrong with kids today. They don't get spanked. I know if I were to have acted like that when I was a kid I would've gotten spanked which is why I didn't act like that. I know parents are afraid of CPS and all that but if you don't over do it it's perfectly fine. it's the only way they'll learn. Time outs, groundings and talks just don't cut it. I know if my son acts up like that I'll definitely discipline him. It's how I was raised and I turned out fine.

Larissa - posted on 09/10/2009




i have the same thing cept my youngest who is 2 1/2.he will scream bloody murder at time when he doesnt get his way,it doesnt matter where he is.stores,bank,in the car,at the park.ive gotten used to the looks of "oh my god whats wrong with that kid" i brush em off,i have started telling him "you can do better" or "you can be loulder" he looks at me like "um seriously mom?" that usualy gets him to stop..for a while then he took me up on my offer and just lets one horrid shreek out.i dont know what to do with this kid,short of ducktaping his mouth shut! lol im kidding of course

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