how do i know if my boyfriend is cheating on me?

Tamra - posted on 10/30/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )

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i found his ex girlfriends clothes beside the bed and emails back and forth between them he swears they didnt do anything but how can i be for sure?

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Rachel - posted on 10/30/2012

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Look at it from a legal perspective: evidence is key in any investigation. They would look at the nature of the emails and try to pinpoint when/why the clothes were left there. I know I wanted facts when my ex was cheating, but I also had a gut feeling. If nothing else, you should go by your instinct. Why was he talking to her in the first place? Why were her clothes still around? If they'd been there for a while, why had he not got rid of them? On a different note - how did you come across these emails? My husband and I share computers and never lock accounts, but we definitely don't go looking for things. If his emails are open when I walk up and see them, that is a different story. If you are looking through his contacts intentionally, are you trusting him? This is in NO way a slam on you. I'm just trying to say if you feel the need to snoop, maybe it's a trust issue. That does not bode well for any relationship long term.

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Kamini - posted on 10/30/2012

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Well hunni, what was the nature of the emails?

Trust your 'gut feeling' , your instinct......it never lies!

Take it from someone who's been down that all too familiar awful road!

Best of Luck ....and feel free to msg. me back with any questions. ;)

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