How do you decide if one is enough when time isn't an issue?


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Rachael - posted on 10/14/2009




I agree with Kristin. I had my first and thought for sure I was done...then a couple years later I wanted another. My 2nd daughter was born in July and now I would say again that I'm done but know that I might change my mind in a few years It's like a vicious cycle; you go through pregnancy woes, labor pain, sleepless nights and swear you're never doing it again......then forget all about those things a couple of years later and can't wait to do it again! If there are no time constraints, then just keep on with your life and you'll know when you're ready to have a baby again.

Kristin - posted on 10/14/2009




It kind of comes on its own. I have two daughters and pregnant with a third right now. My husband and I thought after the first that we would like 2. You know a friend for the first someone to grow with and have if something was every to happen to us. Then after our second we thought yep 2 thats all we need. Except opne day we both asked each other if we were crazy to think of a third. We never really talked about a third it had been a no but soething just changed in our minds. If time isn't an issue then carry on with your life one day you may wake up and just know you want or need another.

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