How to deal with ex like mine?

Martika - posted on 08/05/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My sons dad and I are going thru court cousdy thing well I forgot I would get my son every Sunday a month well I forgot he txt me at eight telling me I wasn't home so I don't get him for a week now why couldennt he txt me earlier too be a lil respectful cause I have a lot going on for me rite now and I just forgot and I even asked him if I can get my son today it's still Sunday he said no then I asked if I could get him tomorrow like I regularly do NO he said how can he be like this too me ??

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Maretta - posted on 08/06/2012

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call the cops you are entitled to your rights and rather he wants to do things out of spite or not...If you you have legal documentation to prove that Sunday is your day

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Julie - posted on 08/07/2012

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Sometimes guys can be a little spacey -
Ignore the fact that he's not calling you ... and make the best of the days you haev with your son.
Whatever you do - do not badmouth your ex to the child ... it honestly hurts ONLY the child. Trust me - I've been there and now that my son is solder he's told me about how I hurt him ... and not Dad!

Melodie - posted on 08/07/2012

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Document, Document, Document. Even if the agreement is not signed by a judge, judges do not like people ignoring agreements. This is even more true when it comes to children. Go to get your son, with police if you can. You don't say how old your son is, but is he old enough to talk on the phone? If he is, let him know you love him. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

Martika - posted on 08/06/2012

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Thanks but the order has not got signed by the juge so my lawyer contacted his but she is not answering so I guess it has too be a waiting game now he refuses too give him too me still so I am just waiting for his lawyer too contact my sons dad hopefully

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