HOW TO GET OUT OF A ROUTINE AND BACK TO EXCITEMENT?

ANASTASIA - posted on 07/19/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Hi! My name is Ana and i am 28 and i am a mother of 4 a 4yr old daughter, 2yr old son, and a set of 13month old twins and i am a stay at home mom i have been that ever since i was 4months pregnant with my daughter. I have been with my fiance for 7yrs and our relationship and become boring and a routine it's the same thing every day and it is really puttin a strain on a our relationship. Just wanting some ideas on what to do to make our life and our relationship more exciting and fun. But when we do go out we just go out and its nothing fun about the date even thats a routine PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!

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ANASTASIA - posted on 07/19/2009

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thanxs for comments i will try doing those its good to know that i am not the only mom that's goin through thanxs keep them coming. LOL

Kelly - posted on 07/19/2009

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I've got 4 kiddies and im also a stay at home mum....i've been with my hubby for 11 years.
We have a night at least once every couple of weeks that is our night...whether we go out or not, we are not mummy and daddy on that night but a couple again.
I feel it keeps everything fresh...we try not to talk about the kids on that night and to just be a couple again.
My parents are brilliant and if we ever do feel like we need a break they will have the kids for us, whether its for a few hours or over night.
We also have a set time for the kids to be in bed for, once they are in bed then it is our time, this gives us time to talk about stuff.
We also try and spend some time togethor with the kids every day just having a general mess about
It works for us and we haven't got bored of each other yet :D

Ginnie - posted on 07/19/2009

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ur not alone ever since i got pregnant3 years ago with our son but then i got pregnant again when he was one.kno we have 10,9,2,boys nad 3 month girl.our relationship has been so borinng and the same thing over and over again.we are having money problems so i'm going back to work for awhile. but finally one day i tried to sit down and have a hear to heart talk.but it seemed i can't get his attentionso iwrote him a letter and that work now we are planning date nightsin a couple weeks and sit down at night and talk about our relationship and life.

Ginnie - posted on 07/19/2009

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ur not alone ever since i got pregnant3 years ago with our son but then i got pregnant again when he was one.kno we have 10,9,2,boys nad 3 month girl.our relationship has been so borinng and the same thing over and over again.we are having money problems so i'm going back to work for awhile. but finally one day i tried to sit down and have a hear to heart talk.but it seemed i can't get his attentionso iwrote him a letter and that work now we are planning date nightsin a couple weeks and sit down at night and talk about our relationship and life.

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