How to get over you kids father once and for all.

Michelle - posted on 11/14/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My sons father and I knew eachother since we were 10 and we were little boyfriend and girlfriend from middle school all the way through high school on and off. We finally had a baby in 2010 and he is almost 4. a month after he left me, he was already with another girl. They been together ever since 3 years now. I still love him and is really hard for me to cope with the idea of her being around the people I love. I don't want to love him and I feel like is out of my control. I am a college student pursuing my BSN and is very stressful having that bother in my heart and dealing with school. I've asked him if he would ever want to be together again and he just says that "im forcing it" or "leave it in Gods hand". That's not a clear answer and it bothers me. What can I do to finally just break the ice and let goo!

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Katie - posted on 11/14/2013

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You need to ignore him, don't ask him if or when or why? Speak when you have to and when its about your kid. Act like you don't care either way about his existence. He will come to you and by that time you might not even want him back. Be strong and focus on you and your kid and try to suspend the romantic notion of having someone around who will never exist

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