how to tell my family

Melissa - posted on 08/05/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )




I'm 20 years old and have a 2 year old son I have been in a relationship with his father for 5 years and we recently just got a house and found out I'm pregnant agin I'm an Lpn I don't no how to tell my family I'm pregnant again I'm so scared they r going to be upset with and disappointed with me


Denikka - posted on 08/05/2013




I was terrified of the exact same thing, with all 3 of my pregnancies (I'm not quite 24 and my youngest is only 4 weeks). But you know, it turned out way better than I ever expected. I know my grandparents (who I was really worried about), are somewhat disappointed, but they love their great grandkids and as long as they keep whatever negativity they have to themselves (a boundary I FIRMLY put in place with my first pregnancy at 19, when everyone freaked out at us), then they can think what they want.

And besides that, you are an adult. It doesn't matter what they, or anyone else, thinks. It is your life, your relationship. You can do as you want. If you are happy and your partner is happy, then good for you and that's all that really matters :)

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