Husband doesn't want his own kids...

Jennifer - posted on 12/28/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )

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My husband continues to say how much he hates our kids and how he wants to get rid of them....
He thinks they are the worse children in the history when in fact they are just typical kids. He doesn't help me enforce punishment. I work Monday through Friday and he works Friday-Sunday so we can avoid paying for childcare.
He keeps telling me to look into what he takes to put kids up for adoption later in life.My kids are 6 and 4. Don't think I haven't thought about leaving, I have. I can't afford my own place, childcare and a car payment. He traded my other car in for a different one and it's twice the payment it was before. Both cars are in his name too. I have no family that will help. No friends that can either. I really think he has an anger management issue as well as I really believe he bipolar.But he will never admit t needing help.
I am at a lost. I don't know what to do anymore. I really feel like he doesn't love his children and could care less if anything happened to them. I can't do shelters, they are over crowded in y county and the counties around us. I make twice as much as he does so child support would be a joke. A lot of my check goes to taxes and health insurance. I don't know what to do. Please help.

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Michelle - posted on 12/28/2013

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He is abusive and you need to leave. No father should hate his children, how do you think the children feel not being loved by their father, and you putting up with it by staying. That is doing a lot of damage to your children and it's for them that you need to leave.
Ask about refuges in your area or even government help. If you seek help there are plenty of places that can help.
Maybe even check out your local churches to see if they can help.

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