Husbands

Rosa - posted on 09/15/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I have questions about my husband, and want to know if I can get some help on a couple situations.

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Esmeralda - posted on 09/15/2009

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it sounds to me your husband is a bit resentful. and hes being selfish.



was baby #2 planned,and even if it was planned was the baby more your idea?



the selfishness/drinking could be him trying to relax and not think about life. we all need a break as parents,its how you handle the time that matters.



as far as fixing the problem...i dont think theres any nice way to handle it.

you need a heart to heart with him.

perhaps asking him if there is anything you can do to make him feel more at ease would be good. as far as the drinking,i would maybe make a budget(if you havent already)and present it to him. letting him actually see yall cant afford it. and maybe suggest having a night every 2 weeks/or a month to drink would be good enough.



good luck!

Rosa - posted on 09/15/2009

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and my other problem is, that my husband likes to drink a little too much. We just don't have the money to spend on it and about to ave 2 kids it's just not fair on them or on me. It seems like he is only thinking of himself and his motorcycle and his drinking habit.

Rosa - posted on 09/15/2009

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Well when I had my first child my husband was great and very supportive, and now that I'm going on baby # 2 my husband thinks and acts like he can do what he wants and when he wants, cause he says he's a grown man.

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